May 30 2020
You and your husband may be loving each other, every moment. But, at times do you feel that there is something missing in your relationship? Have you thought of taking a break from your relation? Are things going as well as it was during the honeymoon phase? Do you still feel bad when he leaves for office and wait to meet him eagerly? If you have your answers which are not in the positive side, it's time for you to rekindle the relation. Any relationship needs constant reminders and spicing up for maintaining the magic. Do not take your partner for granted and think that the relationship is forever. Any day can be the last day of your life and keeping things for special days alone may miss the flavour.
1. Be Romantic
You can add the spice to your life and take initiative for sex. You can leave a small note for him inside the lunch box or even on the car seat. Being romantic is not only meant for lovers and newly married couples. Every man expects his wife to be romantic and making this his way can be the best idea. Give a good morning kiss as soon as you wake up and a goodbye kiss when he leaves for office. A goodnight kiss can make the day complete. Arrange a date night at his favourite restaurant and have a romantic conversation after. Decorate your bedroom to a romantic space to make love.
2.Spend Quality time
Spend uninterrupted time together. You can cook a meal for both or order food from his choice of menu. Keeping aside your work calls/mails will help you get closer. Take a day off from work and go for a long drive. Have silly and deep conversations with each other. Open up your mind. Do not fight or get angry in between for trivial issues. Try to ignore small problems and enjoy the moment. Make memories together. Never keep this day for a special occasion or future because life is unpredictable. A movie marathon is also a great idea, if the movies are the ones which he loves or both of you loves.
3. Small Surprises
You may not be able to gift him an iphone, but can afford a new phone cover. Right? Change his laptop wallpaper to his favourite photo of yours. A self cooked sweet on a normal day can make it special. Pick him up from his office or arrange a boys gang party for him with his friends. What about gifting him his favourite champagne on a Monday night? Sounds crazy? All these small acts of care can bring him closer to you. Surprises can never be a bad idea, if executed well. This should done only according to his likes and dislikes.
4. Like what he loves
You may be a big fan of Dhoni and he may be a hardcore football fan. You need not be a football fan but still can watch a match with him. Once in a while you can join him in his video games or show interest in it. If not playing with him, you can still ask his score or updates. This will make him realise that you are taking extra efforts to be with him. This can really make him fall for you, once again. Small compromises can bring big changes in your relation. If you dislike his hobbies, keep away from negative comments at least and do not interfere or force your likes on him.
5. Turn your house to home
If you are a home maker and have enough time, clean your house regularly to bring him home to a better place. But, if you are a working woman, clean your place of stay, together. Whether it is mopping the floor or washing the dishes, you can both do that together. If he is washing dishes, you can dry and wipe it and arrange it back to place. If you are doing laundry, include him in folding them. Cooking can also be fun when done together. Appreciate each other for small tasks and initiatives. Life is a roller coaster of happiness and pain. It is in our hands to stay together and in love in both .