Jun 1 2018
How to propose HIM? And make him say YES!
Even though it is the 21st century, girls still doubt on proposing a man. She still feels that it is a man's job to take the initiative. Girl, you can choose your partner and let him know that you love him. Do not worry about his reply. Take your stand and be bold enough to face the consequences of your choice.
Loving someone is not a crime, but losing him because he never knew about it is pure stupidity. You may have to regret it all through your life. So, here are some things you can keep in mind before telling him those three magical words, 'I Love You'.
#1 Choose the Right Time
You don't need to wait for Valentine's Day to open up to your love. You can choose either of your birthdays or any other special day. If you both are dating and you want to propose him for marriage, you can choose your anniversary day or first kiss day to take the plunge. Make sure he is only with you on that day and you can even choose a normal day off and surprise him.
#2 Choose the Right Place
You can choose indoor or outdoor as per his and your tastes. But, make sure it is not crowded and you both can have an in-depth private conversation. If he is a foodie, you don't need to book the fancy restaurant for the same. You can cook a meal for him and invite him home and have a good time and set the mood to make him say Yes.
#3Choose the Right Gift
If it is a girl, the choice of gift to propose is very easy. A ring will make her realise that he is in love with you. But, when it comes to proposing a man, you can go for ring, bracelets or any accessories. You can either personalise a gift or make a gift yourself with both of your memories. It is not the cost, but the thought that counts.
#4 Choose the Right Word
If you want to give hints, you should have done that before. This is the time for real talk. You have to speak up what you want him to know. You have to be gentle and strong at the same time. You cannot beat around the bush and expect him to guess your feelings. If it is for marriage, be clear and precise. You need not say anything more or less.
#5 Be Ready for Rejection
You have to be ready for a No too. The matter of consent is equal for both the partners. Understand and respond. Never overreact. You have to be calm and realise that it is not the end of the world. Your man not having the same feelings as you had is not a big deal. It is worth taking the risk. You cannot force someone to be in your life. But now , at least clear about how he feels about you. It is not easy, but be prepared.