Jul 25 2018
No one lover rules, but it's always there. Whether it is your school, college, office or wherever you are. But, there are some amazing rules for couples that can make their moments in bedroom more romantic, organised and exciting. This is a key to long term relationship as bedroom is not only the place you make love, but also memories for a lifetime.
You may be tired from 12hours in office or after running all the day behind your toddler. But, never take that stress inside the bedroom. Take a shower and be fresh, whenever you are in your bedroom. If you see an argument or fight coming, get up and leave the room and discuss the same in any other area. This will help to keep the decorum of the space. You should only share laughter, love, care and passion inside.
Foreplay is the game setter!
Women naturally takes more time to be in the mood than men. So, make sure you cuddle up before taking the leap. Pamper your partner and set the fire instead of expecting it from each other. Take the initiative and bring it on. Light those fragranced candles, play the music and you are all set to go.
Leave your imaginative power aside to decide the role play or to plan the fantasies. Never ever assume that what worked the best with your ex will work with every partner. Every individual is different and so are their preferences. You should always do the trial and error method or talk openly about your likes and dislikes.
Many a times, intuition takes the lead role in intimate moments. If you feel you have to share that wild fantasy with your partner, you have to trust your guts. The right time is when your heart and brain says so. You cannot pre plan such things and be organised. It should be spontaneous and who knows, she must be craving to do the same!
Consent is the key
Even if you are legal partners, you will not get the license to be physical with your partner. Even on the 100th time, mutual consent do matters. Marriage does not mean that you both have to be available for each other every day, every time. You can always make sure that you are not forcing yourself on to your partner or surrendering yourself, without interest.
Orgasm is not the final output
Good sex always need not equal orgasms. You may/ may not get there, but still enjoy a great sex. Men tend to put their 100 percent focus to orgasm and women may not even think about it. But, this also doesn't mean that you can consider her orgasm as secondary or insignificant. You have to take the plunge to make her get there. But, if not, you don't need to lose confidence. Also, it is normal for men to fall asleep as soon as they come. Women need not get offended for not getting cuddled up.