Jul 4 2018
Girls who read are difficult to impress with those pink teddy bears and chocolate bouquet. You may have to get into her world to understand and love her. There are some tips that can come handy, if you are planning to date a girl who is a voracious reader.
Taking her to a coffee shop may not bring her closer to you, but inviting her to a bookstore where you can also sit and sip a cup of coffee will be a great idea. She is definitely going to meet you for a second date, after you say goodbye. You can choose any tiny and cosy bookstore where you can smell the old books and make her feel the most romantic. Once you are there, be with her and get lost in the world of words. Don't try to impose your genres on her.
You don't need to break your head on what to gift her on Valentine's Day or her birthday. Books can be the best gifts for a book lover. But, make sure you are aware of her current tastes and favourite authors. Stay updated and gift her limited signed editions or latest book of her favourite author on the day of the release. You can also gift her book related fonkopops and her favourite character's related stationeries. You can also give her a yearly subscription of book boxes which can bring a smile on her lips, every month.
#Be ready to listen
You may have to listen to her current reading throughout the night. Do not stop her when she gives you a detailed description. She does it only when she loves you. She may not give you a summary, but every minute details so that you can visualise it, the way she did while reading. Conversations on books can connect you both better.. You can also let her know what you are reading currently and have a deep discussion on the same. This will surely gain you goodie points in your relationship. You can make reading together for some time, a part of your night time routine.
#Trips that matter
Do not plan your destination according to your choice. Make sure that place is the backdrop of any of her favourite novels. This will take your relationship to the next level. She is going to see all those details which she experienced and imagined, while reading that book. You can also plan a 'Meet and Greet' opportunity for her to meet her favourite author. This will make her go heads on heels for you.
#Express through words
For her, a love note may be more romantic than a kiss. You can text her in the middle of the day to make her realise that she is special. You can write love letters via post or email, if you both are not meeting up daily. You have to speak up what you feel to make her feel the same. Love poems on her or your relationship can also make her fall in love with you.