May 10 2018
Life is unpredictable and gives you the best and worst when you least expect it. But, this need not stop you from setting your relationship goals. You have your bucket list even after knowing your current status may not take you to all those dreams. Right? You have your alarm set for tomorrow, even though you are not sure about whether we will live the next moment. So, setting up goals is the best idea to focus on what you really need from your love life. This will bring both of you closer than ever before. Plan your honeymoon even if your wedding lehenga is not yet stitched. You can book your hotels and tickets after having a mutual decision on the destination. Remember that this will be the most memorable trip of your love life.
#1 Pack your bags
Do not wait for the best moment to plan your trip. You have to pack your bags and set your mind. Everything else will fall in place. If your dream is a European tour, you don't need to stop travelling till you save enough. You can go for weekend vacations once in a while and also take an annual vacation. You can be in your budget and spend economically to save more. But, nothing can bring you as closer as you will be white travelling. So, let travelling be in your priority list.
#2 Stay Together
It doesn't matter whether it is for rent or you buy it, but there should be a place you can call home. There should be no interference and that space should belong only to you both. If you cannot move away from parents, do not worry. You can create this space in your bedroom. You can discuss anything and everything in this space and no fights should be initiated here. You should have a smile when you think about this personal space.
#3 Goodbye Gadgets
You should decide a time in your day which is completely away from technology. Mobile phones should not interrupt your intimacy and laptops should not beep with new emails too. This will be possible with a little effort from both of you. Never take your phones to your bedroom and also never encourage the habit of scrolling through social media post love making. Utilise that time for cuddling up and making your relationship stronger.
#4 Me time
It is as important as spending time together to spend time with yourself. You should take care of yourself and put yourself on priority. Never feel guilty for that. You can go to beauty salons or read a book with a glass of wine. Do anything that makes you refreshed and this will help you love others more. It is your responsibility to love yourself and make this relationship goal set forever. You can also choose to spend this time with your family/ friends without your partner.