Mar 27 2018
Truth and lies are definitely not gender dependent. But, there are some cues in the lies which women say, that screams in silence. This should be decoded by her man and that is the last hope for a healthy relationship. There are many things which are common among women and this article will help you understand what your better half meant, especially if you are newly married. however it is impossible to understand a woman completely, but there are some obvious behaviour that can be interpreted correctly. These lies may have different purposes from seeking attention to avoid fights.
Why will I get angry on you?
If she says that you can reveal the truth and ensures that she will not get angry. Do not take the risk. She may not tell you anything at the moment, but you have to face the repercussions in the future. This is just a warning. Especially if the truth is regarding your past relationships or something that concerns her, keep your mouth zipped. Those first night conversations on your exes can be kept aside for better times. You should not be digging your own grave with your own axe and later on crib about it.
I am Ok!
If she says she is fine even after your big mistake, beware. Watch the tone of her dialect and pay attention to her actions. If she is quieter than usual or constantly does things that can make you feel guilty, Man you are in trouble, a really big trouble. She will be ignoring it or forgiving you in the present just to avoid a big scene. But, the scenes ahead are going to be worse. It's better to apologise and do whatever it takes to make it up to her.
I am cool with casual flirting
If your partner ignores you staring at that hot girl in the party, you have to be worried. If she says that she is fine with your casual flirting, she is either trying to know the real you or hurt deeply inside and hiding it. She will take it up in the most unexpected situation and you are going to pay for your actions. So, better avoid such cool attitudes to keep you wife happy. Women usually does this to look understanding and not nagging. But, the end result will always be the same.
I will never try to change you
You must have heard this often while in relationship. But, from the next day of your marriage you will see your blue shirt replaced with pink. You will see some additions and subtractions in your meal menu. You will be forced for her favourite movie genre and cheesy romantic dinners. Though this can happen from both the sides, it is always a white lie that you will never try to change your partner in anyways and you will love him/her the way they are. It doesn't mean that you are not loved for what you are. Some adjustments and compromises are part of a happy married life. Also, these are just common or generalised ideas. Your woman may be different.