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Have you ever covered that red mark on your neck with a scarf while at a board meeting? Have your friends giggled at your love bite which made you blush like a wine? Here is everything you need to know about love bite like it's origin, effects and how to remove it faster from your body.
The sex bible, Kamasutra mentioned love bite as coral and the jewel where lip is the coral and teeth is the jewel. Love bite is common in all animals where male mammals create marks on their female partner by nibbling. The common area is around the neck, while mating. Love bite can be a sweet memory of a passionate moment, but also a deadly scar from a scary night. There are chances of the scar never fading out and also instances in which the partner went paralysed. This makes it necessary to go slow and soft on nibbling. You have to think twice about your relationship status, if you constantly dream of getting hickeys. It may not be showing that you are anticipating your next love making session, but an abusive relationship in which you are stuck in.
Hickeys are just bruises caused due to breaking of capillaries, just like you hit something sharp or hard. Sex injuries become complicated when love bites turn harsh. It can lead to permanent scars when it is too deep in the skin. It can also spread oral herpes, if your partner suffers from the same and gives you that mark on your body. So, when you both suffer from some infections, try not to create any cuts on each other as it may result in spreading the infection. The prominence of your love bites may depend on your health too. If you have iron deficiency, the bruises may be a bit evident and clear and takes a little extra time to leave. Hickeys does not have an instant cure. But there are some tips to help cure hickeys, more rapidly. Let's find them out.
1. The first and quickest remedy is an icepack or an ice spoon. Ice spoon can be made by freezing a spoon and press the spoon on the area. You can put some pressure while pressing which can help in better recovery. You can even apply ice covered on a cloth for around 10minutes for the redness to subside. This will also reduce the swelling.
2. You can apply an antiseptic cream or a cooling / soothing lotion on the same to help it reduce the severity.
3. You can use a toothbrush to gently massage on the area which will help in blood circulation and also reduce the pain.
4. Applying toothpaste is also found helpful. Cover the area with toothpaste and leave it overnight.
5. Use a scarf or a cloth to hide the same till you find it okay to show off
6. If you are good at make up, you may have hundreds of hacks to hide the hickeys and make you look gorgeous.
There is another royal wedding in the works! Less than three months after Prince Harry and Meghan Markle wedding, news broke that another member of the royal family will also be tying the knot this year. Buckingham Palace confirmed Princess Eugenie, daughter of Prince Andrew and Duchess of York, Sarah Ferguson, is engaged to boyfriend Jack Brooksbank.
Princess Eugenie and Jack Brooksbank are set to marry in October at St George's Chapel in Windsor – the very same place that Eugenie's cousin Prince Harry tied the knot to Meghan Markle earlier this year.
The princess and her fiance, Jack Brooksbank, started dating in 2010 after they met during a ski trip in the Swiss resort of Verbier. Brooksbank proposed to Eugenie in early January while the two were vacationing in Nicaragua.
Prince Harry and Markle will not be the only royals getting married in 2018, as Eugenie and Brooksbank will also be getting married this year. Harry’s wedding took place on May 19, while Eugenie and Brooksbank’s nuptials will be five months later on Oct. 12, 2018.
Indian film superstar Priyanka Chopra is engaged to young American singer Nick Jonas. The couple - who have been dating for just over two months - reportedly got engaged after Nick popped the question during a romantic trip to London for her 36th birthday last week.
The singer, 25, and Quantico star began dating in May, but their relationship started to heat up after they met each other’s families.
And while the newly engaged couple has been hot on the scene for a short while, it seems as though Nick knew fairly early on that his leading lady was the one.
Earlier this month, the singer shut down the Tiffany & Co. store in London to check out diamond engagement rings for his future wife.
No one lover rules, but it's always there. Whether it is your school, college, office or wherever you are. But, there are some amazing rules for couples that can make their moments in bedroom more romantic, organised and exciting. This is a key to long term relationship as bedroom is not only the place you make love, but also memories for a lifetime.
Set Free!
You may be tired from 12hours in office or after running all the day behind your toddler. But, never take that stress inside the bedroom. Take a shower and be fresh, whenever you are in your bedroom. If you see an argument or fight coming, get up and leave the room and discuss the same in any other area. This will help to keep the decorum of the space. You should only share laughter, love, care and passion inside.
Foreplay is the game setter!
Women naturally takes more time to be in the mood than men. So, make sure you cuddle up before taking the leap. Pamper your partner and set the fire instead of expecting it from each other. Take the initiative and bring it on. Light those fragranced candles, play the music and you are all set to go.
Never Assume
Leave your imaginative power aside to decide the role play or to plan the fantasies. Never ever assume that what worked the best with your ex will work with every partner. Every individual is different and so are their preferences. You should always do the trial and error method or talk openly about your likes and dislikes.
Intuition
Many a times, intuition takes the lead role in intimate moments. If you feel you have to share that wild fantasy with your partner, you have to trust your guts. The right time is when your heart and brain says so. You cannot pre plan such things and be organised. It should be spontaneous and who knows, she must be craving to do the same!
Consent is the key
Even if you are legal partners, you will not get the license to be physical with your partner. Even on the 100th time, mutual consent do matters. Marriage does not mean that you both have to be available for each other every day, every time. You can always make sure that you are not forcing yourself on to your partner or surrendering yourself, without interest.
Orgasm is not the final output
Good sex always need not equal orgasms. You may/ may not get there, but still enjoy a great sex. Men tend to put their 100 percent focus to orgasm and women may not even think about it. But, this also doesn't mean that you can consider her orgasm as secondary or insignificant. You have to take the plunge to make her get there. But, if not, you don't need to lose confidence. Also, it is normal for men to fall asleep as soon as they come. Women need not get offended for not getting cuddled up.
If you think that you need to keep your mouth shut on bed, as he always complained about your talkative nature, you are wrong. There are certain things that every man wants to hear as whispers in ears during the special moment. You need to know what to say and what not to say, and that will spice up your life. This secret mantra is mastered by every successful couple and now you are going to get a gist of it.
#Scream his name and you're going to be the one
If you shout his name when you love what he is doing, he is going to be happy. Your voice that echoes his name with closed eyes make him realise that he is doing it right and you are enjoying the moment. It also makes him secured that you are the only person in her mind, even when she is subconscious.
#Magical Terms
'I am coming' and 'Don't stop' are the two favourite things that would turn him on and encourage him to give you the best experience. No man likes to be interrupted in between and if you motivate him to keep going, that is the best thing you could do. Some sexy moans in between these words would make things better. I am coming is what every man wants to hear and that will take him to heaven and he will always remember the moment you said that. You can try it now!
#'I love it when you do that'
You have to appreciate every small thing he does. If a kiss on your earlobe is what turns you on most, let him know through verbal or nonverbal signs. You can tell him softly what move of him made you crazy and he is expecting it every moment. Who doesn't like good words and what else is the best time to say that? This will boost his confidence and make him do it better.
#Your choice
A man will fall for you every time you give him the choice of what to do and how. Even if it is a dominant participation from you, he will love to say that and make the decision. He will love to take up things his way and will surely ensure that you enjoy it too. This is applicable in the case of sex positions and sexual act too if you love role plays. You can also offer a blow job or something more, as per the wish of your man. There is no rule or limit when it comes to physical intimacy.
#Today was the best
It may be the 'n' th time you are doing it with him. But, he wish to hear that today was the best of all. He always wants to hear it from you that he is getting better every day and you are happier with every passing day. This will kindle your relationship and take it to the next level.
Now that you know the deal, crack it as soon as possible,lady!
The golden rule of every relationship is that the 'past is past'. But, are we really keeping side our past and moving on? Not really. We give ourselves and others, 'n' number of reasons to still be friends with our ex. This may give an emotional security for the time being, but in the long run, you may feel guilty about your decision. But, there are sometimes when you cannot keep distance from your ex, even if you wanted to. Here are some situations which you tell yourself that you being in touch with your ex is justified to an extent.
Mutual Friends
You must have met your ex through your best friend and you both may share common friends. It becomes difficult to avoid all social gatherings and parties. You cannot ditch all your friends due to your break up. This will create room for awkwardness for which you still remain friends. A formality can be expected to be maintained by both of you, by your friend's group.
Gratitude
You must have given back those greeting cards and love letters, but definitely not the iPhone he gifted for your birthday. There is no point in returning that diamond watch that she gifted you on proposal day. These things or other monetary benefits will tie you with your ex and make you keep in touch. If not interested, return them with thanks. If you are keeping them, you will be forced to attend those calls and messages.
Emotional attachment
You or your partner may be an emotional person and this will make you both stay as friends. You will not hurt his/her feelings or may regret hurting too much. Most of the times, being with each other becomes a habit and you will not be able to outgrow it. You may feel that it's your responsibility to be with them, at least till they get through the heartbreak.
Keep updated
You cannot lie that you are still friends in social media profiles and never stalk your ex. You need to know who he/she is currently dating or what is happening in his/her life. You want to make sure that he/she is in pain and still not out of you. This guilty pleasure can be attained through staying in contact and acting as if nothing matters.
You are Lonely
The worst reason to be with your ex is that you are lonely. You must have invested all your time and energy in your relationship and you cannot find an alternative in a day. You may need a friend to take you through the bad times and you find the same in your ex. The roller coaster ride of relationship may make you feel that it is the end of the world and the only person who can motivate you, maybe your ex.
If you are constantly giving yourself the above excuses, it is time that you move on and start afresh. You always can find the ray of hope at the end of darkest tunnels.
What is that 'X' factor that makes you the best wedding planner?
After the box office hit Bollywood debut of Anushka Sharma and Ranvir Singh, 'Band Baajaa Baaraat', everyone wants to be a wedding planner. It looked so easy and stylish to dance at the weddings and steal the show. But, the real wedding planner does not roam around in wedding lehengas, hair open and dolled up face, but will be in their most comfortable dress, running behind the electrician to fix the fuse. It is a tedious, but interesting profession in the wedding industry that can fetch you some good money. Planning your sister's wedding is definitely an add-on, but not everything that you are expected of. Here is some skill set that every wedding planner should have, despite the cultural differences in every part of our country.
#1 Communicate- Talk, Speak and Listen!
You may need to have deep conversations with the bride and the groom, and also their parents to know their expectations and necessities. You can brush up your diplomatic skills and meditation habit to keep your calm. Their interests may conflict and contradict or may at times not fit into their budget. You have to bring them all under one shelter. Since almost all wedding vendors hate working under a wedding planner, you need to be highly professional and respectful to get things done, your way. A simple gap in the communication thread, every other effort goes in vain.
#2 Creative- Out of the box is now mainstream!
No client will want a replica unless it is a celebrity wedding copy with one-tenth of the budget. Yes! you need to be super creative to make things have a signature of your own. You can be inspired by magazines, online portals and photography pages. You collect them up and make an idea book. This will help you get ideas, but there should be still your personal touch which will make the client remember you.
#3 Organisation- it's all about your skill
You have to create the perfect checklist and make sure everything happens on time. Whether it is your responsibility or not, you need to ensure that every task happens on time. If it is the tailor's mistake, you cannot play the blame game. Instead, find a solution. Your disaster management skills will come in handy for this profession. If you are a constant procrastinator, keep it aside for personal life.
#4 Money Management
Wedding involves a lot of money flow. You should know where every penny of your client goes and guarantee the best deal. Even for a luxury wedding, you have to be careful about spending the money as it is important for every person, whether rich or poor. A workable budget should be on priority and any unseen expense should also be seen by a wedding planner.
Last but not the least, remember that there is no room for your tastes, it is all about the client. If you think, you have all these within you, you can get ready for the 'Band Baaja Baarat'.
The European country Croatia has got its own unique wedding traditions. Obiljezje is one such unique tradition.
Before the expensive diamond rings became the way to propose your love of life, the Croatian men used to propose the girl they loved with an obiljezje. Don't get confused with the name. It means mark and is just an ordinary apple with a coin pressed to it. And if the girl accepts the obiljezje, it means that she is marked by a particular man.
Another curious custom is the buying of the bride. It is an interesting event before the wedding where the groom would hire musicians and will be accompanied by his friends and family. They would stand before the bride's house and at the top of his voice would express his desire to marry the girl.
Finally a male member of the girl's family will come out and start bargaining with the groom. The family would first refuse to sell the girl rejecting the groom's offers. After a while they will agree to sell her for free if the groom promises to love her forever. The fun factor doesn't end here the girl's family would offer a fake bride to the groom. It will be usually an old woman with her face covered in a veil.
Once the groom identifies the real girl, he will have to prove his worth in a funny way, sometimes doing push-ups to prove his physical strength.
After that the families will go to the church together.
As most of the Croatians are Catholics the wedding will have all the traditions of a church wedding. A man with a Croatian flag will walk in front of the wedding procession.
There is another funny custom in a Croatian wedding where the bride and groom will try to step on each other’s legs. If the groom succeeds to do so before the bride it means it will be him who will call the shots in their married life. If the bride does it first then she will be the one running the show.
In some areas instead of this the both the groom and the bride will run towards the entrance of the church and the person who reach there first will be the boss at home.
After the ceremony a grand reception will be held at a marriage hall or a hotel. Music and dance are an inevitable part of the Croatian weddings.
Croatians also have a male equivalent of throwing the bridal bouquet. Here the groom will throw the bride's garter and the man who catches it will be the one to get married next.
Croatian men will have to put money in a basket held by the maid of honour. It is done to get the honour of dancing with the bride. Larger the contribution, the longer the dance with the bride will be.
The 24-year-old popped the question at a Bahamas resort. His security staff reportedly asked restaurant patrons to put away their phones before the star proposed. Bieber and Baldwin only recently reunited, having dated in the past.
Bieber's parents also appeared to celebrate online. Bieber's father, Jeremy, posted a photo of his son on Instagram, saying he was "Excited for the next chapter".
Baldwin has appeared in American Vogue, Marie Claire and Spanish Harper's Bazaar. She has also appeared in a number of modeling campaigns, music videos and television shows.
Girls who read are difficult to impress with those pink teddy bears and chocolate bouquet. You may have to get into her world to understand and love her. There are some tips that can come handy, if you are planning to date a girl who is a voracious reader.
#Bookstore
Taking her to a coffee shop may not bring her closer to you, but inviting her to a bookstore where you can also sit and sip a cup of coffee will be a great idea. She is definitely going to meet you for a second date, after you say goodbye. You can choose any tiny and cosy bookstore where you can smell the old books and make her feel the most romantic. Once you are there, be with her and get lost in the world of words. Don't try to impose your genres on her.
#Best gifts
You don't need to break your head on what to gift her on Valentine's Day or her birthday. Books can be the best gifts for a book lover. But, make sure you are aware of her current tastes and favourite authors. Stay updated and gift her limited signed editions or latest book of her favourite author on the day of the release. You can also gift her book related fonkopops and her favourite character's related stationeries. You can also give her a yearly subscription of book boxes which can bring a smile on her lips, every month.
#Be ready to listen
You may have to listen to her current reading throughout the night. Do not stop her when she gives you a detailed description. She does it only when she loves you. She may not give you a summary, but every minute details so that you can visualise it, the way she did while reading. Conversations on books can connect you both better.. You can also let her know what you are reading currently and have a deep discussion on the same. This will surely gain you goodie points in your relationship. You can make reading together for some time, a part of your night time routine.
#Trips that matter
Do not plan your destination according to your choice. Make sure that place is the backdrop of any of her favourite novels. This will take your relationship to the next level. She is going to see all those details which she experienced and imagined, while reading that book. You can also plan a 'Meet and Greet' opportunity for her to meet her favourite author. This will make her go heads on heels for you.
#Express through words
For her, a love note may be more romantic than a kiss. You can text her in the middle of the day to make her realise that she is special. You can write love letters via post or email, if you both are not meeting up daily. You have to speak up what you feel to make her feel the same. Love poems on her or your relationship can also make her fall in love with you.
We cannot generalise the tips for arranged marriage and love marriage. Though there are some common things in both, there are more differences than similarities. In arranged marriage, you will know your partner, after the marriage. There is comparatively less time spent with each other in the case of an arranged marriage. It will take time to adjust and understand each other. At this point, honeymoon will make both the partners a little panic and that is quite normal. Let us find out a few things that can ease you out.
#1 Gift’s and Surprises
A gift will surely help to break the ice between the strangers tied together in the bond of marriage. Pamper your partner by making a personalised gift that suits the occasion. You can also go for her favourite items if you already know them. If not, play safe with a perfume or watch. This can also be done with the help of her friends who know her well.
#2 Arrange a Date Night
Honeymoon should not be the first time you both spent private time. You can plan a dinner date before your trip and discuss your preferences. What else could you partner ask for, if you have taken the effort to do something to make your partner feel special? You don't need a fancy restaurant or candlelight dinner to impress her. A maggie dinner on a riverside or even your terrace may do the magic. You can talk about your likes and dislikes openly and this will strengthen your relationship.
#3 Decide Together
Surprises are great. But, what if you have booked the most exotic beach destination and she is a mountain person? All your efforts will be in vain. You can rather discuss where both of you wish to go and plan together with the whole trip. These planning sessions are going to help you know each other well.
#4 Short and Sweet before long and exciting
You can go for a pre-honeymoon short vacation on a weekend. This will nurture your emotions and calm you down. You will know what to expect in your real honeymoon and also gets a sneak peak of your romantic days ahead. It can be a road trip or a package tour. But, make sure you both get enough private time and you stay together at least for a night, outside your home.
#5 Money and Honey should go hand in hand
If your plan is to take her to the nearest hill station and she expected a Mauritius trip, your honeymoon is not going to do anything good for you and your relationship. So, you can openly state your budget plans and also keep aside a little extra for shopping or gifting something unique to your honeymoon destination. This will also help you both identify your economic preferences.
There are many places which do not usually fall under the radar of the honeymooners. There are many adventurous places you could visit if you and your spouse are ardent adrenaline junkies. Here are two unconventional places to spend your honeymoon if you are game for adventure.
Stay in a yurt in Mongolia
Mongolia is a country known for its nomadic people and the vast, rugged expanses. The country has got huge grass of steppes, sand dunes, rocky and forest Mountain ranges to explore. It is a unique and hardly explored land and if you want to experience the local life of the nomads, plan your honeymoon to Mongolia. The nomads still depend on nature for their survival.
To get the real experience you can stay in the yurt or guest house of a local herder family. There are many travel agencies which arrange the tourists to have the local nomadic life. You can milk the cows and have the horseback riding through the wilds.
Darkhid Valley, which lies about one and half hours from the capital Ulaanbaatar, is an idle place to experience the nomadic life. Chinggis Khaan International Airport in the country's capital Ulaanbaatar is the major airport in Mongolia. But there are no airlines which have a direct flight to Mongolia from India. So you need to take a flight to Beijing in China or Seoul in South Korea and from there you can travel to Ulaanbaatar. MIAT Mongolian airlines and Air China flights are the cheapest.
Skiing in Austria
The ski resort in St. Anton am Arlberg in Austria is a perfect location to have your adventure-filled honeymoon. It is a scenic small mountain village with snow clad mountains. You can buy your ski passes at St Anton am Arlberg and will get the lessons on skiing from there itself. The view from the top is a gratifying experience. You can also enjoy the famous Alpine flower and herb trail. You can book accommodation and holiday plans online. Take a flight to Vienna and from there if you want you can enjoy a 5-hour picturesque train journey to St. Anton am Arlberg.
However great the event, the stage, the venue or the crowd, a wedding traditionally sounds great only if the feast is good, tasty and served with professionalism. A bad food can spoil the entire effects of the weeding, however grand the rest of the arrangements are. So choosing the caterer is the most important part of any wedding.
Zallkar is one of the oldest and most demanded caterers in Kerala renowned for their highest quality food and services. Be it a traditional function, a grand multi cuisine wedding reception or a small engagement gathering, Zallkar has the right solutions for you with authentic chefs dedicated for specialized cuisines.
From traditional Kerala sadya to Chineese, Arabian or continental cuisine, Zallkar can address your needs with their experienced craftsmen who can suggest you the dishes for a menu of your budget, prepare authentic and tasty food and serve it in the right way. They even concoct a ready menu to suit any occasion, ensuring you success and serenity. No wonder, the customer-oriented services of ‘Zallkar’ is bringing the customers back again to them again and again.
Zallkar was established in the year 1972, at Pala, Kerala. Since then, Zallkar Group is one of the largest privately owned food production companies with well-equipped kitchens and ever cherished items. Irrespective of the size of the order, they even cater to the orders of hotels and distributors with punctuality. They also aim to provide items at competitive prices with due freshness. With a good transportation facility, they deliver the products without any delay. The trained staff at every point ensures that everything functions and goes well.
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Everyone wants to be happy and no one knows how. The answer is Smile. Smile at yourself. Smile at a stranger. Smile at an old person. Smile to a kid. Smile for no reason. You will wonder how a single expansion of your lip muscles can make yours and your partner's day better. It is a magic recipe that can make all your problems lighter. This highest positive emotional gesture is not just an expression, but a lot more. Studies say that an average human smiles up to 5-20 times a day and a kid smiles more than 400 times. Who is more happy and who makes others more happy? This can make you think how many times have you smiled today? Start your day by giving a beautiful smile to your love.
This article gives you 5 reasons to smile more often in your relationship.
1. Everything contagious is not bad
Do you wonder why you yawn when your partner yawns? The answer is yawn and smile are contagious . When you smile at someone, you will get a smile in return, at least a small grin. This can spread the benefits of smiling to your whole network. This is the best contagious thing that you can give your partner, unlike cold and fever.
2. Slow down your adrenaline level
Smile reduces stress and stress is found as the major villain in all relationship problems. Reducing stress can even help you to become a parent soon. Try smiling and hugging your partner, when you feel your world is melting down. Your blood pressure can be dropped with a single curve on your face.
3.Not only time, but smile also heals
Smiling has a miraculous power of healing too. It can reduce your physical and mental pain. If you can smile when you are at the worst, you don't need anything else to make you feel better. Laughing and smiling is found to release natural pain killers that can raise your tolerance level. This will make you tackle yours or your partner's pain better.
4. Make you more beautiful
As you have heard before, smile is the best make up in this world. Even if you are wearing the most beautiful attire, you need to smile to look your best. Also smiling helps in relaxing those face muscles which gets harmed due to anxiety. No more anxiety wrinkles and dark circles that can take away the charm of your face.
5. You can be more immune
Your immune system can be improved with a smile on your face. The count of white blood cells is found to be raised in sick children who met the happy puppeteers. This will help you face your life in a more healthier way. You get more endorphins, the chemical that can make you happier. If you are still looking for more reasons, you will get 'n' number of facts that substantiate the benefits of smile.
Keep Smiling folks!
Truth and lies are definitely not gender dependent. But, there are some cues in the lies which women say, that screams in silence. This should be decoded by her man and that is the last hope for a healthy relationship. There are many things which are common among women and this article will help you understand what your better half meant, especially if you are newly married. however it is impossible to understand a woman completely, but there are some obvious behaviour that can be interpreted correctly. These lies may have different purposes from seeking attention to avoid fights.
Why will I get angry on you?
If she says that you can reveal the truth and ensures that she will not get angry. Do not take the risk. She may not tell you anything at the moment, but you have to face the repercussions in the future. This is just a warning. Especially if the truth is regarding your past relationships or something that concerns her, keep your mouth zipped. Those first night conversations on your exes can be kept aside for better times. You should not be digging your own grave with your own axe and later on crib about it.
I am Ok!
If she says she is fine even after your big mistake, beware. Watch the tone of her dialect and pay attention to her actions. If she is quieter than usual or constantly does things that can make you feel guilty, Man you are in trouble, a really big trouble. She will be ignoring it or forgiving you in the present just to avoid a big scene. But, the scenes ahead are going to be worse. It's better to apologise and do whatever it takes to make it up to her.
I am cool with casual flirting
If your partner ignores you staring at that hot girl in the party, you have to be worried. If she says that she is fine with your casual flirting, she is either trying to know the real you or hurt deeply inside and hiding it. She will take it up in the most unexpected situation and you are going to pay for your actions. So, better avoid such cool attitudes to keep you wife happy. Women usually does this to look understanding and not nagging. But, the end result will always be the same.
I will never try to change you
You must have heard this often while in relationship. But, from the next day of your marriage you will see your blue shirt replaced with pink. You will see some additions and subtractions in your meal menu. You will be forced for her favourite movie genre and cheesy romantic dinners. Though this can happen from both the sides, it is always a white lie that you will never try to change your partner in anyways and you will love him/her the way they are. It doesn't mean that you are not loved for what you are. Some adjustments and compromises are part of a happy married life. Also, these are just common or generalised ideas. Your woman may be different.
Weddings are special occasions for dressing up. You need to take a little effort to look good even if you are not the bride and groom.
It is a myth that only women have to dress up for the wedding; if you want to be a stylish guest then men also need to put a little effort while selecting their wedding dresses.
Guys, formal wear not only means suits, you can opt for the stylish ethnic Indian wears like sherwanis or bandhgalas while attending a wedding.
We are not saying that suits are boring but instead of the usual penguin look you should add some colour to it. You can experiment with navy blue, true blue, dark brown, tan/khaki or light grey. Please stay away from dramatic colours as you would look more like an eyesore than a stylish wedding guest.
You can also channel your inner James Bond in a tux. Wear a dashing tuxedo, shirt with a turned down collar and a bow tie to the wedding.
Men, there are no rules like you should only appear in a western attire at your wedding. You could go for a casual look too. A well-fitting shirt and pants paired with a stylish jacket (no tie please) is a good choice. A white linen shirt paired with a khaki casual coat and pants is also a great combo.
We said casual but that doesn't mean attending a wedding in your everyday denim.
Well, if you don't want any western look then pick any of the ethnic Indian outfits. A well-tailored kurta and pyjama can turn you into a stylish guest. Pair it with jootis or sandals (but no flip-flops).
To stand out in the crown you should wear a sherwani. Make sure that you have less bling than the groom. Actually, it is better to keep away from bling. Pick a simple, but stylish, piece with less embroidery. You can either pair it up with a pyjama, a dhoti style salwar or cigarette pants. It is better to skip the shawl as you are the wedding guest, not the groom.
Another ethnic wear bandhgala or Jodhpuri suits are also a great choice for Indian guests. Pick soft colours like beige or light green/blue etc... A bandhgala suit will instantly give you a royal look.
Another wonderful combination is an off white kurta and cigarette pants with a maroon Nehru jacket.
There are numerous occasions in your life when you have to say ‘No’. But, when it comes to relationship, we often get’s reluctant or hesitant in certain situations. This will depend on how long you need the person in your life. Remember one thing, if a person really loves you and wants to be with you forever, a ‘No’ will not change the status of your relationship. It may enhance your self-esteem and your partner’s regards about you.
This is a list of situations where you should be bold enough to take a stand for yourself.
Wrong Touch
Whether he is your boyfriend or husband, if you are not comfortable, you should say ‘No’. Consent is something important in any relationship. Just because you are committed and you need to sustain that person in your life, never keep quiet or put yourself in a place where you are not comfortable. This is applicable in all other relationships too. Whether it is a family member, friend or stranger, you should have the courage to say when you are not interested.
Verbal Abuse
Never allow a person to verbally abuse you, just because he is not physically harming you. Verbal harassment is as worse as physical assault. Especially if you are in a marital relationship and your partner keeps abusing you, it’s time you raise your voice for your rights. Also, loose comments in social media should not be treated lightly and ignored. No one should be allowed to get into your dignity.
Casual Flirting
If you think that casual flirting to some extent in office is okay, you are wrong. You are not expected to answer those late night calls or reply for sexting. You can always refuse communication after office hours, if unprofessional. If you keep silence, it may give a wrong interpretation to that person who does it that you that you are interested for more. You need not encourage private relationships in official situations.
Toxic Relationships
Do not cling on to those relationships in which you are never happy. A better future is just a hope. If your today is bad, tomorrow may be worse. People who broke your trust should not be allowed to repeat their mistakes. Those people who have created that dose of depression in your life should be flushed out as soon as possible. Keeping such people in your life is going to add complexities in your life.
Excuses
Learn to say ‘No’ to yourself which is very important. Those excuses you keep saying yourself for not taking care of yourself, for not working out, for not being happy and a lot more. It is as essential as saying No to unlikely conditions. You should not fool yourself and stay unhappy. The key of your life is with you. Do not play the blame game and convince yourself that you cannot improve. Excuses and procrastinations should be your worst enemies. Saying a Big ‘No’ in these 5 things can make you a better person.
Wedding bells are ringing for Actor Neeraj Madhav and Deepthi, a native of Kozhikkode. They got engaged yesterday. Marriage will be held on 2nd April 2018 at Kozhikkode.
Neeraj, also a good dancer entered Mollywood with his first film Buddy, was later seen in several movies - Memories, Drishyam, Oru Indian Pranayakadha, 1983, Apothecary, Oru Vadakkan Selfie, Jamuna Pyari, Adi Kapyare Kootamani and Sapthamashree Thaskaraha.
He choreographed a song in the movie Oru Vadakkan Selfie, and turned scriptwriter for Lava Kusha. He also appeared as the male lead in Paipin Chuvattile Pranayam.
Are you excited about your anniversary plan of getting a couple tattoo done? Just, check out these few things that you should consider before taking the plunge. You must have been discussing about the pain and other related matters various times. You both may have previous experience of tattooing too. All these can help you in deciding a couple tattoo for you and your partner. But, when it comes to the couple tattoo, there are some more matters to look into.
Here is a list of the most important ones:-
Are you sure about him/her?
You may be 100 percent sure about getting a tattoo. But, are you feeling the same about this relationship too. Couple tattoo decision can be spontaneous, need not be stupid. But, remind yourself that this tattoo is going to be permanent, despite your relationship status. Do you/your partner has the habit of changing partners often? Do you see your future with your partner? Are you sure that 5-10 years down the lane, you will be as thrilled as you are now about this relationship? If you have answers to all these questions, you can get ready to take the decision. If you are not sure, give it some more time.
Name or Design?
When you decide to do a couple tattoo, the first thing that comes to your mind is either your partner's name or initials. But, there are better ideas though. You can choose couple designs that may have a meaning even if you end the relationship. Names can always be painful if the relationship does not last. Also, think about the pain of removing it in future. Go for designs that stand together to represent your love and stand alone with an identity. You should decide the position for your tattoo also wisely.
Being Awkward or Stylish
There is a thin line between being awkward and being stylish. If you cross it, you may become a laughing stock for your group. Be sure that you have a beautiful story to explain your tattoo. Every other person you meet may show interest in your tattoo and love story. So, keep it ready with sufficient spices to make it fictional and look no less than a fairytale. Do not overdo it. Go for smaller tattoos in the beginning. You can always modify or add on later to make it bigger.
Know about tattoos and your artist
Do maximum research before you get the tattoo done. Take time as possible to fix your design. Artist also matters when it comes to tattooing. The previous works of the artist can act as a testimonial for you. You should never compromise on the quality. Cheap tattoos can create health hazards. A small mistake can make you regret lifelong. So, you should be well learned before doing it. You can search online for the meanings of tattoos too. If you or your partner is a first timer, let your artist know about any dermatological issues you have and also can do a patch test before getting the final one done.
You must be going through the worst days of your life, but let us remind you 'Even this will pass away'. You can easily believe that the world is going to end for you. No! You are going to be okay soon. This is a passing phase and you will recover from the mental and physical bruises soon. Longevity may be criteria for calculating your recovery time. Still, time will heal the pain you are currently experiencing.
To make things effortless for you, let us give some simple practical ways to get out of a breakup and say goodbye to your past.
1. Grab your pen
You must have heard that penning down your daily tasks or thanksgiving notes is the best habit of a successful person. It is not different in the case of a breakup. Write down everything that bothers you and flushes out all your emotions whether it is anger, frustration or whatever it is. It can relax you as faster as talking to a brain doctor. Journal all your worries and insecurities and you will see them erased from your mind.
2. Call them back
Hang out with your friends and spend time with them. You don't need to shit talk your ex or even discuss your past at these get-togethers. You can focus on other positive things in your life and people who love you. Family can be another good support who can be with you through these rough days. Your time should be invested only with people whom you value or wish the best for you.
3. Pack your bags
Travel to a place which gives you comfort. You can go for solo trips or with family and friends. This is completely dependent on what kind of a person you are. Some fresh air and good spirit is all you need to refresh yourself. Avoid places that you already enjoyed with your ex or have any memories attached. Find a new place where you have never been and no one knows you so that you can be as stupid as you want to be.
4. Move your ass
Overeating or starving can be the worst side effects of a breakup. You don't need to hog on to chocolates or damage your body with alcohol. None of these can give you a permanent solution. Instead, if you start a new healthy lifestyle and workout regime, you can see that the body is thanking you, even though your mind is hurt. Cardio and many other exercises can help you face the world in a more bolder manner.
5. Say No to Social Media
Stop stalking your ex's profile and mourning on the loss. Deactivate all your social media accounts and block your ex everywhere. You won't regret keeping away from the internet for some time. Do not show the desperate you to the world and your ex. This is the coolest tip to move on from a very bad break up. This can make you a happier person.
Article by
MEERA KAMAL
Congratulations! Your longtime boyfriend has finally asked for your hand. And you think that you need not wait for a second to scream YES! But, relax! There are a million things you both must have shared except the most relevant ones. So, let's make this complicated task, a bit easier for you.
Here is a list of things you need to ask your boyfriend before getting married. This will help you in not regretting afterward.
What about Pappa Mummy?
You have to discuss beforehand that whether you will have to stay with his parents or you both will move in together. You can also confirm, whether his parents will accompany him if he moves in with you. This talk can reduce a lot of fight in future. If you have dependent parents, you can inform him that too. If you have a single parent and you want him to shift with you, that also should be pre-planned.
When do you want to clean the poop?
Child plans should be well discussed before the marriage. If you have career plans that do not allow a quick maternity leave, you can confide. If his work demands extra time for a couple of years and he wants to spend time with his kid, you can push the plans ahead. Also, if anyone of you prefers adoption and does not believe in making own babies, that also should come in your conversation. There will be differences in decision making. But, make a proper one before putting yourself through the wedding.
How many installments do you have?
You may have taken a home loan for your family and wants to continue paying the installment even after marriage. There may be education loans or personal loans that you have to pay every month. Be transparent about your financial status and never fake luxury. If anyone of you needs financial assistance after marriage, that also can be made clear. This will help you fix an economic budget plan in future.
Will you still be a believer?
The biggest question that arises in love marriage in India is related to religion. If it is an inter-caste relationship, which is the common religion in the family? Will you or your partner change the religion after marriage? If not, what will be your take on your kid's religious status? Will parents be okay with your decision of changing religion? All these questions should have answers before you both tie the knot.
What do you do when you have nothing to do?
Your hobbies and interests can be talked over a coffee which can help you get an idea about your future weekends and vacations. It does not mean that you both need to have same choices. She may be a beach person and you a mountain addict. But, you can choose your holiday destinations wisely. If this year you chose the Maldives, Himalayas can be your next one. After all, there are years to live together!
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MEERA KAMAL
The day of the wedding is the most auspicious day for a girl. It is a beginning of a new journey with her soul mate. So, why not make her journey cheerful and vivacious with little surprising elements? Let’s try to bring a smile on her lips with cute gifts- a gesture of love and companionship.
Jewellrs are always known as a girl’s best friend. They enhances and highlights her beauty. They are never a cop out especially for the lovely ladies. A simple chain with a cute pendant, a bracelet or a pair of earrings can make her shine like a star.
A day beginning and ending with surprises can be a unique way of gifting. A day full of unexpected. Send her bouquets, sweets, cards and her favorites. She will be definitely pleased by this cute act.
Printed gifts are still on the run. Memories get refreshed whenever they are captured. Why not go for a printed mug having her picture. You can make a collage of all her memories and gift it your lovely lady. You can even go for a couple t-shirt which has a printed photo of yours.
Keepsake Boxes can be gift with a purpose and personal touch. She can keep her precious items whether it is her jewelry’s or personal items safely. You can gift the box by filling it with chocolates or minute gifts. Make sure to design the box with her favorite color.
Hmm, know her style and taste, then gift a perfume of her taste. She would definitely admire it. This can be a small but a cute gift for her.
Are you worried about finding the right ensemble for your pre-wedding ceremonies as well as the big day? Well, there’s nothing to fear because Wedding Street has it covered for you!
Here’s a list of the 6 top wedding costume designers in Kerala.
1. ArtstrA
As the name suggests, ArtstrA is a boutique situated in Kottayam that specializes in ethnic wear. So, if you are in search of sarees, lehengas, or salwar suits this is the right destination for you.
This one-stop-shop for all your ethnic wear needs has so many options that you can choose from to look your best for your special day.
2. Kalista
If you settle for nothing but the best, especially for your wedding, then Kalista is the perfect destination for you. At Kalista, you will be able to find the trendiest top wedding costume designers available in the market.
From gowns, formal wear, wedding dresses, and Indian wear, Kalista has it all, and more. The best part of this boutique is that you can tailor make your wedding dress just the way you like it.
3. Paris De Boutique
Paris De Boutique, established in 1954, is one of the destinations that every fashionista in Kerala know about and swears by. This has made the boutique a premier destination for women’s bridal wear and wedding costume designers.
There’s something for everyone here and the multiple locations across Kochi is a plus point as well!
4. Kavini
Last but certainly not the least Kavini has created a niche for itself for the best Kerala sarees for a Kerala Christian wedding. The sarees here reflect the latest trends and preferences while preserving the culture, tradition, and rich heritage of this region.
Kavini is all about staying true to one’s roots particularly on the wedding day.
5. De-Fab
Design, style, and expertise are the cornerstones of De-Fab where you can personalize your dream wedding costume design. With the choicest collection to choose from this brand is all about making your dreams come true.
6. Hue Designers and Stitch Crafts
Based in Calicut, Hue Designers and Stitch Craft are always on a mission to make their customer’s look and feel beautiful. They are the top wedding costume designers specializing in designing lehengas, salwar kameez, and sarees.
Hope this list gives you a head start on your zeroing in on the perfect wedding costume designers to design your once in a lifetime special wedding dress.
Personal hygiene is always at priority whether you are married or not. But, after marriage, your personal hygiene is more important not only because of your physical relation but also your infections may be contagious. Everything becomes a matter of two. Your partner may suffer from your ignorance of personal hygiene. This is a quick guide to start an all-new personal hygiene regime from the day of your marriage.
Clean Up before and after
Always clean up before you start making love, however spontaneous the act may be. Wash your hands and take a bath after sex too, and wash every part of your body. Use personal care products like the vaginal wash to ensure that the ph balance is correct.
Pee before and after a sexual act
It is necessary to use the washroom before and after a sexual intercourse. This will avoid unnecessary interruption of nature calls in between your romantic moment. This also a part of personal hygiene as urination throws away any unwanted particles in your vagina.
Protection is a must
Unless you are trying for a baby, use condoms every time you go for an intercourse. Do not reuse condoms or use unsealed or already opened ones. This can ensure unexpected pregnancy. This will also make sure you will not transfer any diseases.
When its Oral
If you are going for Oral sex, wash your mouth well before and after the act. You should not choose Oral sex if you have any cuts or boils in the mouth. Make sure your Oral hygiene is maintained all through the day. Any foul smell can push your partner away from you.
Hair removal Problems
As hair is the natural protection from any foreign body entering your private parts, you may not need to remove it. If you or your partner prefer non haired body, you can go for trimmers or shaving. Hair removal creams are mostly allergic to private parts. You can check them in the leaflet attached in the packet. Waxing bikini area will give you a soft and supple skin but comes with a bigger package of pain.
Wash your inner wears regularly
Do not leave your inner wears without washing in the laundry bag. Wash them daily and never reuse without washing them. Hand wash is preferred for almost all the brands. You can use warm water and a few drops of Dettol to ensure cleanliness. Dry it well under the sun. Do not dry your inners inside the bathroom. Any bacteria will be killed only with strong sun radiations. Try using cotton inners to ensure air circulation and avoid allergies.
Anti-inflammatory creams
If you have any boils/cuts near the vagina, you can go for any anti sceptic or anti-inflammatory ointments that are available exclusively for your sensitive areas. This can be due to closed /tight bottom wears or inner wears. If aggravated, consult a doctor without self-medication. Use loose cotton clothes to avoid.
Article by
MEERA KAMAL
You and your husband may be loving each other, every moment. But, at times do you feel that there is something missing in your relationship? Have you thought of taking a break from your relation? Are things going as well as it was during the honeymoon phase? Do you still feel bad when he leaves for office and wait to meet him eagerly? If you have your answers which are not in the positive side, it's time for you to rekindle the relation. Any relationship needs constant reminders and spicing up for maintaining the magic. Do not take your partner for granted and think that the relationship is forever. Any day can be the last day of your life and keeping things for special days alone may miss the flavour.
1. Be Romantic
You can add the spice to your life and take initiative for sex. You can leave a small note for him inside the lunch box or even on the car seat. Being romantic is not only meant for lovers and newly married couples. Every man expects his wife to be romantic and making this his way can be the best idea. Give a good morning kiss as soon as you wake up and a goodbye kiss when he leaves for office. A goodnight kiss can make the day complete. Arrange a date night at his favourite restaurant and have a romantic conversation after. Decorate your bedroom to a romantic space to make love.
2.Spend Quality time
Spend uninterrupted time together. You can cook a meal for both or order food from his choice of menu. Keeping aside your work calls/mails will help you get closer. Take a day off from work and go for a long drive. Have silly and deep conversations with each other. Open up your mind. Do not fight or get angry in between for trivial issues. Try to ignore small problems and enjoy the moment. Make memories together. Never keep this day for a special occasion or future because life is unpredictable. A movie marathon is also a great idea, if the movies are the ones which he loves or both of you loves.
3. Small Surprises
You may not be able to gift him an iphone, but can afford a new phone cover. Right? Change his laptop wallpaper to his favourite photo of yours. A self cooked sweet on a normal day can make it special. Pick him up from his office or arrange a boys gang party for him with his friends. What about gifting him his favourite champagne on a Monday night? Sounds crazy? All these small acts of care can bring him closer to you. Surprises can never be a bad idea, if executed well. This should done only according to his likes and dislikes.
4. Like what he loves
You may be a big fan of Dhoni and he may be a hardcore football fan. You need not be a football fan but still can watch a match with him. Once in a while you can join him in his video games or show interest in it. If not playing with him, you can still ask his score or updates. This will make him realise that you are taking extra efforts to be with him. This can really make him fall for you, once again. Small compromises can bring big changes in your relation. If you dislike his hobbies, keep away from negative comments at least and do not interfere or force your likes on him.
5. Turn your house to home
If you are a home maker and have enough time, clean your house regularly to bring him home to a better place. But, if you are a working woman, clean your place of stay, together. Whether it is mopping the floor or washing the dishes, you can both do that together. If he is washing dishes, you can dry and wipe it and arrange it back to place. If you are doing laundry, include him in folding them. Cooking can also be fun when done together. Appreciate each other for small tasks and initiatives. Life is a roller coaster of happiness and pain. It is in our hands to stay together and in love in both .
Article by
MEERA KAMAL
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Personal hygiene is always at priority whether you are married or not. But, after marriage, your personal hygiene is more important not only because of your physical relation but also your infections may be contagious. Everything becomes a matter of two. Your partner may suffer from your ignorance of personal hygiene. This is a quick guide to start an all-new personal hygiene regime from the day of your marriage.
Clean Up before and after
Always clean up before you start making love, however spontaneous the act may be. Wash your hands and take a bath after sex too, and wash every part of your body. Use personal care products like the vaginal wash to ensure that the ph balance is correct.
Pee before and after a sexual act
It is necessary to use the washroom before and after a sexual intercourse. This will avoid unnecessary interruption of nature calls in between your romantic moment. This also a part of personal hygiene as urination throws away any unwanted particles in your vagina.
Protection is a must
Unless you are trying for a baby, use condoms every time you go for an intercourse. Do not reuse condoms or use unsealed or already opened ones. This can ensure unexpected pregnancy. This will also make sure you will not transfer any diseases.
When its Oral
If you are going for Oral sex, wash your mouth well before and after the act. You should not choose Oral sex if you have any cuts or boils in the mouth. Make sure your Oral hygiene is maintained all through the day. Any foul smell can push your partner away from you.
Hair removal Problems
As hair is the natural protection from any foreign body entering your private parts, you may not need to remove it. If you or your partner prefer non haired body, you can go for trimmers or shaving. Hair removal creams are mostly allergic to private parts. You can check them in the leaflet attached in the packet. Waxing bikini area will give you a soft and supple skin but comes with a bigger package of pain.
Wash your inner wears regularly
Do not leave your inner wears without washing in the laundry bag. Wash them daily and never reuse without washing them. Hand wash is preferred for almost all the brands. You can use warm water and a few drops of Dettol to ensure cleanliness. Dry it well under the sun. Do not dry your inners inside the bathroom. Any bacteria will be killed only with strong sun radiations. Try using cotton inners to ensure air circulation and avoid allergies.
Anti-inflammatory creams
If you have any boils/cuts near the vagina, you can go for any anti sceptic or anti-inflammatory ointments that are available exclusively for your sensitive areas. This can be due to closed /tight bottom wears or inner wears. If aggravated, consult a doctor without self-medication. Use loose cotton clothes to avoid.
Article by
MEERA KAMAL
You and your husband may be loving each other, every moment. But, at times do you feel that there is something missing in your relationship? Have you thought of taking a break from your relation? Are things going as well as it was during the honeymoon phase? Do you still feel bad when he leaves for office and wait to meet him eagerly? If you have your answers which are not in the positive side, it's time for you to rekindle the relation. Any relationship needs constant reminders and spicing up for maintaining the magic. Do not take your partner for granted and think that the relationship is forever. Any day can be the last day of your life and keeping things for special days alone may miss the flavour.
1. Be Romantic
You can add the spice to your life and take initiative for sex. You can leave a small note for him inside the lunch box or even on the car seat. Being romantic is not only meant for lovers and newly married couples. Every man expects his wife to be romantic and making this his way can be the best idea. Give a good morning kiss as soon as you wake up and a goodbye kiss when he leaves for office. A goodnight kiss can make the day complete. Arrange a date night at his favourite restaurant and have a romantic conversation after. Decorate your bedroom to a romantic space to make love.
2.Spend Quality time
Spend uninterrupted time together. You can cook a meal for both or order food from his choice of menu. Keeping aside your work calls/mails will help you get closer. Take a day off from work and go for a long drive. Have silly and deep conversations with each other. Open up your mind. Do not fight or get angry in between for trivial issues. Try to ignore small problems and enjoy the moment. Make memories together. Never keep this day for a special occasion or future because life is unpredictable. A movie marathon is also a great idea, if the movies are the ones which he loves or both of you loves.
3. Small Surprises
You may not be able to gift him an iphone, but can afford a new phone cover. Right? Change his laptop wallpaper to his favourite photo of yours. A self cooked sweet on a normal day can make it special. Pick him up from his office or arrange a boys gang party for him with his friends. What about gifting him his favourite champagne on a Monday night? Sounds crazy? All these small acts of care can bring him closer to you. Surprises can never be a bad idea, if executed well. This should done only according to his likes and dislikes.
4. Like what he loves
You may be a big fan of Dhoni and he may be a hardcore football fan. You need not be a football fan but still can watch a match with him. Once in a while you can join him in his video games or show interest in it. If not playing with him, you can still ask his score or updates. This will make him realise that you are taking extra efforts to be with him. This can really make him fall for you, once again. Small compromises can bring big changes in your relation. If you dislike his hobbies, keep away from negative comments at least and do not interfere or force your likes on him.
5. Turn your house to home
If you are a home maker and have enough time, clean your house regularly to bring him home to a better place. But, if you are a working woman, clean your place of stay, together. Whether it is mopping the floor or washing the dishes, you can both do that together. If he is washing dishes, you can dry and wipe it and arrange it back to place. If you are doing laundry, include him in folding them. Cooking can also be fun when done together. Appreciate each other for small tasks and initiatives. Life is a roller coaster of happiness and pain. It is in our hands to stay together and in love in both .
Article by
MEERA KAMAL
Planning for your best friend’s wedding can be a nightmare for you. There is a lot to plan from attire to make up. You want to be as prettier as possible and still not overdo it and be the eyes grabber of the event. But, keep in mind that you should never upstage the bride. You must have already survived a couple of panic attacks thinking about the same. Your wardrobe must be upside down by now and your shopping budget has been mismatching from the day you came to know about her wedding. This is a simple guide for wiping away all your worries. You are assured to look your best for your all-time favorite wedding.
Look into this modest piece of wisdom that can make your day special.
Check for the Theme
You have to confirm whether it is a theme wedding or not. If there are colors mentioned, half of your concern is lessened .If it is Hawaii themed, you have to dress accordingly. Also look for the destination of the wedding. If it is a beach wedding, your dress should match it up. Wearing something out of theme may make you embarrassed and left out from the crowd. There is a thin line of being unique and awkward. This should be defined properly for every function.
Never be too casual
Unless asked for, keep your track suits or jeans at home. Being too casual for a formal function can make you the odd. Some people may mistake you for disrespecting them or taking their invitation too lightly. For a Hindu or Muslim wedding, try to be traditional and not too modern. If it’s a Christian wedding, you can go for dresses or modern outfit. Do not wear slippers or floaters for a wedding. Go for formal shoes or sandals that goes well with the outfit you wear.
Colors do matter
The color choice of your attire should depend on the time of wedding function. If it is in the morning, go for light shades and nude make up. If it is at night, black or red can make you look dashing. Indian weddings do not mind splashy bright colors even for a morning function. Always dress completely before you reach the venue. You should not be half dressed and expect to dress on the spot. If you cannot dance on your heels, you can carry your dancing shoes in a packet.
When in doubt, go for semi-formal
If there is no indication in the invitation about the dress code, you can talk to the bride/groom about their expectation. If there is nothing like a dress code and you are too confused, you can go for semi-formals. You will not look odd in any circumstance. If every other person is wearing traditional, you may still get along. You can also choose different colors for different function related to the wedding. Yellow can be best for haldi ceremony, green shades for Mehndi and red for wedding function, if it is a traditional Indian Hindu wedding. Wear the dresses you are comfortable with. If you cannot carry an off shoulder, never try it on a wedding function. You should not be going to washroom every other minute to check your dress. Also, if you are unsure of walking in a saree or high heels, practice it well before you wear it on a wedding. Remember that confidence and smile can be the best attire you can wear for making everything your way.
Accessorize Wisely
Since weddings are the only time you can use those heavy necklaces and shoulder touching earrings, do not look like a Christmas tree. You should balance your look for looking good. If you are wearing a full neck stone work necklace, go easy with the choice of your earring. This will ease out the look you are trying to carry. Also, be careful with the shoes you are wearing. Will you look perfect in a sneakers under a beautiful lehenga? Also, do not forcefully wear gold if your outfit has all silver work. This may look very bad on your dressing sense. If you cannot avoid gold accessories, choose your attire accordingly. Your makeup and hairdo should also compliment your attire to get that complete look.
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MEERA KAMAL
We think that finding something after putting it inside a ladies bag is no less than a treasure hunt. You may get lost inside her bag which has everything from a pepper spray to safety pin. But still, she may not have something necessary inside that. This is where this article comes handy. Every person is different and have diverse needs. But, there are some common things that one should have in their bag. This can make life easier for all the girls out there.
1. Body Mist
A deodorant/ body mist or perfume should be there inside a handbag. If the bag is small, you can go for small bottles or even pocket versions of your favourite perfume. But, make sure the perfume which you have already applied, get along with the fragrance you carry. If they mismatch, along with sweat, it can be a bigger issue. Even though the advertisements claim 12hours or 24hours long lasting nature, try to reapply and stay fresh and scented throughout the day.
2. Moisturiser
We never forget to apply moisturiser on face or body. But, after a few hours you may sense dryness inside your arms or face. This can make you dull for the meeting or lunch date. Have a small bottle of moisturiser in your bag which can be a saviour. This will help the skin to be soft and supple. If you are a person who greets people with a handshake, you can create a very good impression with this.
3. Sunscreen
Every sunscreen needs to be reapplied after 3 to 4hours. Now you know why you got super tanned on that road trip even after applying a sunscreen. Try to have smaller packs of the same brand you are using. A minimum of 30SPF is needed in current climate of our country. You should also apply it at night because skin should be protected always despite of the time. You can have separate sunscreens at home for body and face, but a single pack would be enough for a handbag. A wisely chosen sunglass can also hide your puffy eyes or sweaty look and make you look like a diva.
4. Sanitizer/Tissue
Do you think you can wash your hands every time before you touch something? If you are a water person, it's time for you to switch to sanitizers. Also, if you are a hanky person, you may have to use the same towel to wipe your face or manage a bad cold. In such situations, always have a tissue and sanitizer inside your bag. This will help you to maintain your personal hygiene. Also, if your make up gets dull or damaged, you can wipe it off for a fresh and clean look. However well you dress, hygiene should be the most significant part . Pocket size sanitizers are readily available in any supermarket, these days.
5. Make up kit
Keep a small make up kit with your basic necessities inside the bag. A kajal, an eye liner, a lipstick and a loose powder will do the magic. Do not carry too many stuffs in your bag. If you are wearing a particular lip color and you want to touch up, you can put it in the bag. Go for common neutral colors which can be worn with any dress and at any time. If you are more conscious about your looks, carry a dim shade for day and a bright one for night. If you are not a loose powder person, a compact cake can do the same task for you.
6. Handbag Organiser
You can buy a good handbag organiser from online websites that can help you organise everything from phone, wallet and other essentials. This will help you to get out of the blame that nothing can be found inside your bag. Separating and segregating items will help you manage them. This can also protect the bag from cosmetic spills or any other color damage.
Early to bed, early to rise is a clichéd saying but valid forever. You must be that person who wakes up after lunch time and sleeps when the world wakes up. But, things may have to change after the wedding for many of us. You may be expected to rise before the morning chirps of birds and sleep before your normal dinner time. This can be the last thing you can do. Climbing Mount Everest may found easier for you. Let us give you some hope now. You are not alone. You can make this a habit with some small changes in day to day life. Check out these amazing tricks that can change you to an early bird.
1. Prepare Yourself
You have to tell your body and mind that you are going to change. Mental preparation is necessary as this is a lifestyle change. Nothing can be changed overnight especially a habit you have been following for years. You can log your sleep pattern in a book or sleep support apps. Create a schedule at night.
Sample:
7.30pm Dinner
8.30pm Switch off every gadgets like phones and laptops
9.00 pm Get in Bed
9-9.30pm Read
10 pm Turn lights off
2. Sleep More
The thought of rising early can be a nightmare, but more sleeping hours can be motivating. Make sure you get a minimum of 7 to 8 hours of sleep every day. You can avoid afternoon naps so that your body will ask rest early. If you cannot avoid, nap cautiously for a few minutes. This can increase your metabolism and make you healthier. Less sleeping hours has a lot of side effects which can be as dreadful as brain damage. Take one step at a time. If you are sleeping at 12 pm and wants to change it to 10.30pm, do it slowly. You can sleep at 11.30 on the first week and ` 11 pm at the second. You can reach your target patiently so that you don't easily get back to your old habit.
3. Smart Drinking and Eating
You have to choose your food and beverages carefully. Do not have anything at least 2hours before you sleep. Lighter and easily digestible dinner can do wonders. Keep your proteins for breakfast. Drink a lot of water during the day and also as soon as you wake up. Alcohol of Caffeine can stand in between you and your sleep. You can work out in the morning and meditate at night. This can also let you sleep earlier and better.
4. Power Off
Switch off your wifi and laptops at least an hour before you sleep. The screens and the lights can not only harm your eyes but also will ask your brain not to sleep. Scrolling down again and again for hours will hinder your sleep a lot. Never bring any gadgets to your bedroom like mobile phones or ipads. Don't give the excuse of keeping alarm to keep the phone near you. You can use an alarm clock or timepiece for that purpose. Keep it in such a place that you need to walk and go to snooze it. This will avoid waking up late even after the alarm rings. Once you are up, you will be ready for the day.
5. Motivation
Find a reason to wake up early which makes you happy. Waking up early to make tea for in-laws can make you feel bad. Think about the most exciting task of the day and rise up for that. Working out for getting into shape can be a great motivation for you to wake up on time, meeting your friend can be another. The inspiration should be such that it makes you get your ass out of that bed. Having things to do in the next day can not only motivate you but also lead you to success. Above all, you have some extra time every day unlike the busy rush in the morning. You can take your own sweet time to take bath or read the newspaper.
All the best to all the readers and let everyone be an early bird soon. Share your personal experiences and let us know whether these tips helped you, through your comments.
Mothers-in-law are considered as monsters by almost every daughter in law. All thanks to daily soaps and Indian cinema. When a girl child is born, she is trained from her early stages to hate her mother-in-law. Anything you do which is wrong for the society, you will be warned that you cannot do it at your Sasural (husband's home). Be it waking up late or not washing dishes, you will be constantly reminded that you cannot have this freedom of choice. This makes us hate that person even before knowing her. What if she can be your mother? What if she can love you instead of shouting at you? Looks Impossible? We discuss a lot about how a girl moves in with her in-laws and adjusts with the whole family, one fine day. But, do we realise that there is another side to this coin? A family is including a new person into theirs, who may be entirely different from them. This can create a panic situation.
Try these simple and useful strategies to make her your best friend.
Take it Slowly
As much as a daughter-in-law in worried about her in-laws, mother-in-law is also tensed about the woman in her son's life. There will be a lot of changes which she has to accept. His son must have been asking about fashion tips to mom till date and suddenly everything changed. She becomes the second priority in her son's life. Let her take her own time to adjust to these quick changes and everything else will fall into place.
Know the core reasons
Understanding the reasons is not a rocket science when it comes to a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship. But, you may not be able to see the real mother-in-law, if you are in the mode of judgment. It is not necessary that if your sister's mother-in-law is very demanding that yours too need to be one. You are not there to judge her or make her conduct certificate. Know her well before you make some judgments about her character. She may be different from your mom. But, you and your partner are also different in nature. Never compare your mom and mother-in-law because no two persons are same.
Accept her as Mom
If you cannot accept her as your mom, how can she love you as her daughter? Make sure that you are taking sufficient initiatives to understand her better. If you are getting hurt for any silly comments or corrections from her, assume whether you will be having the same notion if she is your own mother. If not, you are on the wrong track. Love can make everything better. Once she gets the love of a daughter, you can wait for the day she has tears of joy in her eyes. Understand that everyone needs to be loved and she is no different. If you are possessive about the man you are with for past 3 years, she is with him for past 30 years. Simple Logic!
Ignore Irrelevant Things
If your mother-in-law has a bad opinion about your cooking skills, change it through your talent. Do not try to cry over it and make it a big issue. Trivial issues can be handled by ignoring them. If you love to sleep till 9 and she wants you to wake up at 6, do that for a few months and win her heart. Convince her that you love sleeping a little more without disobeying. Do not take things to heart unnecessarily. Try not to involve your husband in such matters and put him in trouble by asking to take any side. This will not only make things worse but damages relationships.
Be Polite and Understanding
It does not take much effort to be an empathetic daughter-in-law. But, it can change the world for you. If you disagree, be calm and polite in your words and actions. You can use your managerial skills to handle the situation. Never raise your voice or lose temper. This will make you say or do things which you never even meant. Respecting elders will not do any harm. In the end, remember that she is the woman who gave birth to the love of your life. Everything she does will have a reason behind that she loves her son enormously.
Once your wedding is fixed, you get immense lectures on how to manage your in-laws and every other person you meet gives you free trial advices. This will make you realize that marriage is not only bringing you and your partner together but both of your families too. But, soon after your wedding, you realize that you both have a bunch of different friends gang and they all are opposed to how your friends are. Here is when you need a proper manual to handle her girl's gang. Incorporate these simple tactics in your life to make those girls your fan.
1. Know them before you meet them
You have to take your girl's help for this step. Try to know small funny secrets or nicknames of her friends and greet them in such a way that they should be impressed on the first hello. Become a part of them and make them a part of you. Also, the way you treat her can always make them fall in love with you too. They will accept the one who treats their friend well. Knowing her friends will not only help you connect with her friends, but also facilitate to know your girl better.
2. Travel Together
If her friends list already has any couples, you can travel together and double dating always gives double fun. This will give both of you privacy, though you are in a group. Travelling together not only ensure extra adventures, but also more safety. If some unexpected things happen, like your car getting flat tyres or anyone falling ill, these company can be a great idea to handle. Make sure none of the couples dominate and both of them get equal chances for decision making. If you chose the breakfast venue, let them select the place for lunch.
3. Shopping and Movie dates
Shopping can never go wrong in case of girls. Same is the case with movies. Even if it is a movie genre you don't personally prefer, you can compromise once in a while. Make it a habit to catch up with her friends at least once in a month. Movies give you a personal retreat along with a feeling of being in a gang. It is not that you need to pay for all her friends whether it's a movie or shopping. Holding bags for them and being with them itself can make things your way.
4. Give her space
Once in a while, let her nurture her friendship, without you. This will give her personal space. It's always good to have good friends around and she is going to be more passionate about you, once she is back. A little missing is going to create magic and she will always be thankful for that space.
5. Let your girl do her part
You always need to take things slow. Let her introduce you to her gang. Her friends know you and judge you only through her. So, make sure she gives the best possible review about you. Any bad impression can create lifelong problems. If she likes you, her friends will also will like you. But, if she is giving a very bad notion on your habits, you are gonna be in real shit.
6. Never try to change her
After all these efforts if her friends are not into you, let them be. But, do not ask her to change her friends. Never complain or nag about her gang. Respect them for who they are and accept the differences. Friendship cannot be forced. They may be possessive about your girl and that itself can keep them away from you. But, stay positive because they all love your girl and want the best for her.
7. Connect both your friend's circles
If you believe that both yours and hers friends group match their wavelength, you can arrange a house party. This can break the ice and bring them closer. A box of beer and some bottles of wine can do the magic. They all will mingle themselves and if not, you can pidgin .This can be the best experience, if both of your friends are positive towards the idea.
You must be dreaming of being with her on that special night for months now. Along with being excited, you must be confused on how to make things up to her. Whether to use purple flowers or pink bed sheet and how to decorate the room will make you go nuts. But, this time you have to take up the charge and make every single effort significant. This day will not come back. As we used to say, a couple may go for trips around the globe. But, the most memorable one will be the honeymoon, even if it was to the nearest city. First night is not only about being together, but creating memories together. So, make sure that everything is perfectly planned and executed.
Here are some things to keep in mind while you make your room ready for your exceptional night.
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1. Bedding
The cot can be selected by its shape or decor. But, the bed should be chosen keeping in mind, the long term use and comfort. If the space and budget permits, go for a King size or Queen size bed set. This will be useful when you have kids and you don't need to struggle for space. Having some extra space can never be a bad idea. Go for a quality bed that is healthy and long lasting. You can use a comfort under the bedcover for more comfort. Colours of bed sheet can be according to her colour taste. Traditionally white or light shades are preferred while having a plain silk/satin black bed sheet also can be the most daring decision ever.
2. Floral Decoration
Most of the times we tend to generalise that women like pink and go for it. There are traditional benchmarks which prefer jasmine flowers all over the bed and cot. The first and foremost thing is that never over do anything. If you want to decorate the room with rose, make a heart with rose petals on the bed. If you do not want to risk, make that floral heart on the floor. Check beforehand that whether your partner has any floral allergies. Do not over decorate the room with strong smelling flowers like jasmine which can give you a floral hangover, next morning.
3. Candles and Scented Materials
If you are planning for a candle light night decor, be careful with the choice of flavours. You should ensure that both of you are not having any respiratory issues. f you use scented candles or pot pouris inside your air conditioned bedroom, that can cause slight suffocation for people who has sensitive lungs. So, in an intention of doing good, do not put your health in trouble. Use a minimum of candles because less is more. Make sure you do not spray any other room fresheners, if you are going for scented items because a mixture of different fragrances can be a very bad idea.
4.Lighting
Dim warm lighting is the best for a special night. If you have bright lights in the room, arrange a small table lamp which can set the mood. If you are going for candles, you can skip this. But, always have a small light near your bed or if it is far away, you need a switch near the bed. You can have blinds in your bedroom which can make any day, look like night.
5. Customise and Personalise
You can go for customised bedcovers, lights or even candles. You can have your romantic photos printed on the bed sheet or side lamp. If it is not nailed on the wall, you can also gift her the same. You can also frame a beautiful moment of both of yours and complete the bedroom set up. Make sure that she does not visit your room before night. Make this whole set up an amazing surprise which she rekindles lifelong.
Wedding is a very special moment in the life of every girl. Every bride is the star of her wedding and she must be the center of attraction. You want to look the best and beautiful version of yourself. But the bride always forgets to take care of herself. The beauty regime must begin at least six months before the wedding, so that you look amazing for the auspicious moment. Now it’s the time to throw away your stress and to start planning and preparing for your dream day.
CTM
Cleansing, toning and moisturizing must be your first and foremost beauty mantra. A radiant skin can make the bride look charming and appealing.
You must follow a daily routine of cleansing, toning and moisturizing to keep your skin glowing and fresh. CTM will help you to keep your pores open and skin to breathe freely and lock the moisture in to the pores. And the main rule is to apply sunscreen while going outdoor.
Healthy Diet
You must follow a healthy protein rich and low calorie diet to stay weight free. Make greenery a part of your diet. Healthy diet will make you energetic, hydrated, fresh and young. A big no must be said to junk foods.
Water
Just like a healthy diet, water also plays a crucial role in your routine. Drinking water is a significant and vital factor for staying energetic and refreshed. Your skin will be dry and unappealing until you drink adequate amount of water. So, you must drink at least 8-10 glasses of water to stay hydrated.
Sleep
Having a proper and relaxed sleep is a notable factor to stay vibrant and composed. You must have at least 8 hours of sleep in a day to stay calm and fresh. Proper and adequate sleep will reduce stress and there by reduces the puffiness and dark circles around your eyes making you look attractive and gorgeous.
Facial and Hair Spa
Just like your body you must give equal care to your face and hair. You must start getting facial at least 7 months before the wedding . Opt for a golden facial weekly to get a radiant face.
Similarly get a protein treatment for your hair to maintain the moisture. Proper care for your hair makes it healthy and shiny.
Pedicure and Manicure
You must certainly get regular manicure and pedicure to keep your nails clean and polished. You need to be perfect from all corner. Pedicure and manicure will make your hands and feet soft and moist. Blunt or dirty nails will ruin your bridal look, make sure to keep your nails trimmed and soft.
Smile
Who doesn’t wish for a pearly white teeth for all those pics you are posing? Before approaching your D Day you must make sure to visit a dentist and make your teeth smile perfect.
Meditate
Stress and restlessness are the worst things that can happen for a to be bride. So you must spend sometime for meditation. This will definitely keep your tension and stress away.
We all are familiar with the saying that “marriages are made in heaven”. Now this is no more a phrase or a dream. Its a reality. Be it for a fab celebration or just a small private ceremony sometimes couples loved to get married in different locations other than their hometown. Destination weddings have become a trend setter in the scenario of current weddings. Couples are in hunt for those destinations that are affordable at the same time unique and enriching, so that they can make their once in a life time celebration grand and memorable.
Although selecting a perfect place for a destination wedding is an arduous task , especially if you have a budget. India being such a diverse place, has some beautiful locations to satisfy one’s need and demands for an affordable yet an amazing wedding.
Alibaug
If you in search of a perfect destination for a beach destination wedding then your search is over. Alibaug provides you all it that is needed for your dream beach destination wedding with its lovely and beryl beaches. This place would provide you with an attractive indoor and outdoor space for the ceremony at an affordable price. Alibaug can be a perfect spot to make your memories.
Goa
Under the lustrous azure skies and the buzzing tide, why waiting to tie the knot? There are diverse spots in Goa for celebrating your special day. You can either chose a church, if you want a religious ceremony or a beach if you wish for an open air ceremony or a fun filled wedding.From lavish wedding to a simple one, you can have all it here.
Lavasa
Lavasa near Pune is an ideal spot if you want to have an Italian touch for your wedding. Lavasa is India’s first man-made hill station which is designed based on a town in Italy. Appealing architecture, natural lakes, mountains and waterfalls will make an amazing location for your wedding.
Allepey or Backwaters of Kerala
Kerala is always named for its richness and greenery and Allepey in Kerala is known as the “Venice of the East”. It is a perfect destination for those who are eager of tying knot in a quiet place with lots of fun. The serene ambience, fresh water, fluttering canals and dazzling houseboats, all showcases the beauty of God’s Own Country thus making your wedding memorable and mesmerizing.
Shimla
If you are looking for a gorgeous off beat wedding destination, then Shimla can be the best choice. Shimla, Summer Capital of India is a picture perfect town with pine trees densely covering the land and charming carved streets all set against natural splendor. Shimla is the most happening place to have an affordable yet luxurious wedding.
The name carries it all.. 'River Banks' is definitely the kind of get away that you always dreamt of, with the splendid ripples and jiggles of the Thodupuzha River flow right across your room balcony. Surrounded by nature in its best of greenness, 'River Banks' offers you comfort coupled with harmony of the woods too..
Equipped with 17 well appointed rooms in the main block with a balcony in each room facing the river and A/c & non A/c banquet halls, and the lawn service facility by the river side make this location an ideal one for wedding & related functions. The lawn provides a spectacular view of the river in all its richness, and is sure to give you a wonderful dining experience with the best of views around you.
'Ripples', the multi-cuisine restaurant inside the main block serves all the delicacies the taste buds can ever ask for, with the 'Naadan' (Ethnic) dishes being the specialty of the much experienced chefs behind the show. The variety of dishes along with the amazing ambience provides a one-of-a-kind dining experience for food lovers.
The success of each wedding or celebration is assured by the individual attention to details, synonymous with our experienced event management department with utmost care.
Situated at 64 Km from the nearest airport (Nedumbassery – Cochin) and 59 Km from the nearest railway station (Alwaye), 'River Banks' also shares the best of proximity with other major tourist attractions within Kerala like Kumarakom, Vagamon, Thekkady, Munnar, Thommankuthu, Ilaveezha Poonchira, Idukki, Thattekkad Bird Sanctuary etc, and makes it a never-to-be-missed location for honey moon couples.
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If you are thinking about those big boobs or extra large butt, you are completely mistaken. Sexy is a word that has taken the role of trendsetter from being used along with food to dress. This ensures that every time we use sexy, there is something great that we love, associated with it. Though we are in the days of fat shaming and slim shaming, being sexy is not only about 36-26-36. There was a time when men looked for women who can take care of their elderly family members and cook three times meal. This was the definition of a perfect marriage material kind of woman. Now, the table has turned around. Men want a woman who can support them financially and are independent. Cooking is not even on their books. The new generation has realized that a Youtube video or house help can solve the issue of food. Breaking the stereotypes, there are many common qualities that are attractive to men.
Here are some amazing qualities that will make every woman desirable and sexy as per a man!
1. Being Independent
Gone are those days when men wanted women to depend on them for everything from finance to physical activity. Today they prefer women who have a dependable job and also does everything that was once a monopoly for men. They want their partner to be equal and do their own activities without seeking permission. It is not only about the job but also has a stand and opinion of your own that can grab his attention.
2. Honesty
Honesty can never go out of fashion. Every men and woman look for this quality in their partner. This does not mean to reveal every single aspect of one's life. But, being honest to partner is always on demand and will be the best quality for any gender. Being truthful to oneself is the biggest attitude one can develop.
3. Be Sensible
Being sensitive was once appreciated, but being sensible is what counts now. A woman should be able to understand the situation and handle it, instead of being emotional. Being susceptible is not a bad emotion, but taking responsibility and being accountable is more accepted. Intelligence and humour sense are other relatable attributes that can make men fall for you.
4. Passionate Drivers
Women have always been linked with bad driving and worst parking skills. It's time to change the perception. Women who can drive can always support their family and themselves, a little more. Women need not depend on their partner or public transport, at times of emergencies. It is not about being cool, but self-sufficient. So, if you are a crazy driver/ rider, men are in search of you!
5. Professionals
It is always a give and take policy when it comes to respecting. With due admiration for women who chose to be homemakers, men prefer women who are career oriented. In current economic condition, it is more than a mere time pass for women to work. Both the partners should equally divide the burden of financial stability. This can ensure a better lifestyle and living conditions for the whole family.
6. Neither Dominant nor Submissive
Women who are reliable are always a turn on for men. It is not the past of either men/women who define them. Men prefer women who value themselves. Being suppressive or dominant are not expected from women these days. Gender equality is highly welcomed. There are men who prefer to be homemaker and women who can be the CEO. A balance of both can create ideal couples. Mutual respect and understanding are what creates a beautiful relationship. Neither of the partners needs not be dominant nor submissive to have a successful married life.
All these qualities are the best ones for women, not only for attracting men but for themselves.
Mehendi is one among the most significant feature of an Indian Bride. We cannot dream up a wedding without beautiful mehendi designs adorning the hands of all women present and especially the bride. But finding a design that is unique and traditional at the same time can often be a baffling task. However, with all options and designs, it is confusing to pick one. Whether you want to adhere to traditional patterns or try the latest designs, we will elate you to find a match that compliments your style.
Story Mehendi
Story mehendis are often profoundly detailed design features art all along the bride’s arm. Faces drawn into bride’s palm add distinctiveness to the fine pattern. Many brides opt to have her and the groom’s face portrayed in the mehendi to illustrate a story, often their fairytale love story and their journey so far.
Minimalistic Mehendi Design
The latest wedding trend is minimalism, whether it is the jewellery or the mehendi. Couples often go for simple yet unique options. Minimalist mehendi designs uses a geometrical pattern like off center square or other shapes as its focal point and provides involved detailing in to it and thus captures the eye. The tips of the fingers are also elaborately decorated living the rest of the hand bare.
Royal Mehendi
Royal mehendi design often reminds us of the ancient and magical mughal architectural designs. Royal mehendi is the oldest form and is still in lead today. These designs are often artful, splendid and heavy with minute and detailed designs. Elaborate curves, checkered designs, peacocks, petals, paisleys, curls and flowers are what that stands highlighted and unique to this design.
Lace Glove
Lace gloves are worn by western brides on their wedding day to add elegance to the outfit. In India, brides flaunt their mehendi hands instead of covering them with gloves. Lace glove mehendi design is a style that combines a glove and the traditional mehendi pattern. They are very elaborate and delicate patterns often drawn at the back of the hand and cover the hand to give an illusion of you wearing a sheer lacy glove. It can be seen as a fusion of modernism and traditionalism. Lace glove mehendi designs considered sexy yet classy.
Raja and Rani Design
Raja and Rani Motif is the most common in bridal mehendi designs. This design showcases an artwork from the Mughal era of a king and queen. This design reflects a royal couple, where we can see Raja’s face portrayed in on hand and Rani’s face on the other along with some detailing. When combing the hands, it seems to be like the images facing each other.
Mandala Mehendi Design
Mandala mehendi design is a common design in bridal henna. A large circle is drawn at the centre which serves as the base, around which other patterns are drawn. Mandala designs beautify your palms in such a way that they symbolize class and elegance.
Choosing a wedding invitation is a key factor in the wedding planning process as everybody would want to send cordial wedding invitations to invite their dear ones for their D day. Invitations are the forerunner and introduction to what is to follow in your events for your guests. Make sure to have your wedding stationery be a true and personal reflection of yourself as a couple.
There is a lot of transformation in the way a wedding invitation card is gestated and designed today. Traditional as well as modern elements are fused in the styling to make it more captivating to the young couples getting married.
There is a swing towards more neutral colors and floral self-prints. Sometimes wedding cards often come in boxes that are keepsake items as people want their guests to keep the box as a memorial of the wedding. Although traditional colors like maroon and gold are still popular particularly if the family is making the choice. However, when a Bride and Groom are making the decision the trend is more contemporary with touches of western styles. So, what are you waiting for? Let’s have a look through the latest trends in wedding cards.
Gift Boxes or Basket
The newest trend with the new generation families is sending gift box or basket which contains both the invitation and gift as a token of good will and amore. It can be used to gift chocolates or other sweets and denote the age-old tradition of starting a good endeavor with something sweet.
Madhubani Style Mix Funk with Folk Art
Madhubani invites with Indian figures done up in Madhubani style paintings are super unique and distinctive. It is our take on contemporary Indian art. Vibrant colors have been used to add to the merriment with a personalized tale for each occasion.
Embellished Cards
An embellished card is a one with stone figurine, crystal gold or silver linings or ribbon bow. They not only furbish and enhance the cards but also offer a rich look to them. These embellishments help augment the look of wedding invites.
Theme Cards
Theme cards are in fashion these days and it is designed in accordance to your wedding theme. In case of a royal wedding, miniature paintings of kings and queens and palace can be made on cards or in case of a destination wedding the peculiarities of the destination can be highlighted through the cards.
Two Fold
Many couples have begun to use the two-fold invitation. The first fold generally embodies information about the couple and the middle fold normally contain details about the wedding itself. These designs contain more information as a contrast to the traditional invitations.
As a bride, you will discover time to go to beauty salons for facials and other hair and skin care treatments. But, a daily routine is a must to maintain the benefits of those tan removals and spas. Follow-ups are the saviors of any skin polishing management. You tend to ignore the skin, as you focus more on weight loss habits for getting into that perfect wedding attire. You do crash diets and eat unhealthily or starve, which directly reflects on your skin. You believe that regular visits to beauty parlors alone can make our skin perfect. And you give the burden of looking the best to your wedding day beautician. But, whether it's your wedding or not, some simple skin care habits can make your skin look healthy and beautiful. This will take less than half an hour on a daily skincare routine.
1. Work Out
The first thing to do after you wake up is awaken your skin. Give a Good Morning massage to your face and you are good to go! I mean, to the gym. Some cardio and weight training five days a week should not have any excuses. You should be able to dedicate at least 20-30 minutes every day for working out. Make exercise a part of your life so that not only your body, but your skin will also say 'Thank You'. This will give you that natural glow which your pseudo ayurvedic face wash promises you.
2. Hydrate
Drink at least 8 glasses of water every day. Carry a water bottle in your handbag, wherever you go. Your skin needs a lot of water to retain its flexibility and texture. Whether you have a dry skin or oily, hydration is the best treatment you could ever think of. This will prevent the visit of uninvited guests like zits and pimples. This will make you ready to face the stress you have to handle the whole day. This will help you for a perfect bowel movement which in turn gifts a great skin. If you think you may forget to drink water in your busy schedule, there are mobile apps to remind you the same and give you a track of your water intake.
3. Cleanse
Washing your face should be the first step in your skincare routine. You can use a gel/ water based face wash if you have an oily skin. If dry skin is what bothers you, go for a creamy face wash. If you have any special issues to be taken care of like pimples, use a chemical free face wash. Make sure you have a separate towel exclusively for your face. Never use a bath towel to wipe your face which can give room for dandruff or dirt to enter your skin. This should be repeated at bedtime too for ensuring a makeup-free skin.
4. Exfoliate
That strong scrub by the parlour folks during a clean up or facial, makes you feel heaven. But, did you know that exfoliating regularly can save you from the extreme pain of blackhead removal? Not only your face, but your whole body needs exfoliation to remove those embedded dust and open the pores. You can use a facial scrub once in 3 days and a body scrub, once in a week. You can see the difference in suppleness of your skin in less than a month. You can select a scrub of your choice or make a natural scrub yourself with coffee and sugar to exfoliate.
5. Moisturise
Always remember to moisturise your skin. Apply a moisturising cream all over your body. This will make sure that your skin stays hydrated. Even if you have an oily skin, you need to use a moisturiser. You can wisely chose the ingredients or texture of the cream, as per your skin requirements. There are moisturisers available for every skin types in the market. You have separate moisturisers for face and body. There is no harm in using body lotions as hand creams. You don't need to invest separate for hands/legs. But for face, you can buy the best ones.
6. Sunscreen
Sunscreen with SPF 25 or above is a must for your skin care. Sunscreen should be reapplied every 3hours for complete protection. Apply all over the exposed parts of your body as per your attire. This will not only prevent tanning, but also protects your skin from harmful radiations which can even cause cancer. This should be the priority in your make up regime , so that your skin remains healthy all through the day.
Anger is assumed to be the language of love and concern in a relationship. But unfortunately, it is not. Anger is a negative emotion and anything negative cannot be proportional to love. Daily fights can be a routine for many married couples. It may start with a little extra salt in the breakfast to that phone charger which was misplaced. A wet cloth on the bed or an unclean kitchen can make your home a battlefield. But, these small fights can make your relationship a bitter one. Every couple should have a smile on their lips when they think about their relationship. Or else, you are with the wrong person or maybe you are just doing it wrong.
Relationships are based on trust and honesty. So, breaking up any of these can make your partner get heated up. But, if you follow some simple rules, your love life can be happier than ever.
Rule No:1 - Never sleep with a fight
However mad you are with each other, never go to bed angry. This will bring unnecessary gap in between and make things worse. Always sort out everything and never miss that goodnight kiss which makes every curve straight. If you sleep in anger, you may neither sleep nor forget the issue and wakes up with a disturbed mind. This can affect your next day and work life too, if unnoticed. You may need a lot of practice and patience to follow this rule. But, trust me, this can be the biggest quote for your happy married life.
Rule No:2- Apologise! Apologise! Apologise
Never mind who started the fight or who made it worse. You can always take initiative in saying Sorry. Ego can be the worst enemy, a relationship can have. So, never be too late to take your stand and apologize. Things can be wrong, situations can be bad. But, you both love each other and that is what matters. Never use abusive language or harsh words on your partner. Spoken words cannot be taken back. Even if you didn't mean it or if it was unintentional, the pain it causes can last forever.
Rule No:3- Never raise your voice
You may be really angry at what she just said. But, raising your voice is never going to do anything well. Your higher tone or pitch is not going to make your arguments sound right. Instead, even if you are saying the right thing, you may be misunderstood. So, always maintain a calm conversation about your love life. Never say or do anything in anger. Fury is the worst time to take decisions of life. You can leave it for them and talk about it later when you have a control over your actions. This will reduce harming each other's emotions.
Rule No:4- Never involve a third person
You should never involve a third person to solve your personal issues unless it is necessary. Whether it is your parents, friends or experts, they cannot solve it as you could. It is your partner's and your problem. The more people you involve, the more big the issue will become. Try not to make small things bigger. A third person may try to understand the situation from their own experiences and perceptions, which may be completely wrong in your case. Instead of seeking advice from others, try and sort it out with your own knowledge about each other.
Rule No:5- Hug it out/Kiss it up
When your partner is fuming in anger, hug him/her tightly. Hold both your hands together and stay quiet for a few minutes. You can see the magic of love. This miracle rule will make you believe in the power of touch. This can be the best solution for all your worries. You can make it a part of your daily life, even if you both are in a good mood. Hugging and kissing can nurture your relationship and rekindle the love.
Every celebrated wedding of Indian couples prefer a location abroad for the nuance and opulence, that country offers. After India's most awaited wedding of the year, Virushika (Virat-Anushka) wedding that happened in Italy, India is looking for something novel and fresh. The unique blend of tradition with luxury can be seen only in the land of the crescent moon- Turkey! From the legendary Istanbul to the paradise of tourism, Antalya and the bridal gown and jewellery hub, Izmir, Turkey is all set for a warm welcome to Indian couples.
India has been chasing Maldives, Europe and Australia for their dream wedding. They all became common among lavish weddings through years. But, for those who are looking for an inimitable experience, you can blindly go for Turkey. Turkey is expecting around 30 Indian weddings per year when their tourist rate is around 2lakh. They are looking forward to a handshake for the knot of togetherness.
Here are some reasons why you have to choose Turkey as your wedding destination.
1. Flight Services
There are direct flight services from India to Istanbul. They are economical in comparison to European countries. Discussions on direct flight to Antalya is also on cards in recent years. This can be a big highlight when it comes to wedding destination. The guests can also reach comfortably without any hassle. Turkey's brotherhood with Pakistan is nowhere coming in between the love with India. Every year, Turkish tourists prefer India as their favourite destination for its heritage and history.
2. More the Guests, More the Fun
Unlike western weddings where less is more, we also have a huge number of the guest list for Indian weddings. From every person known till date to near and dear ones, every single guest is important. Usually, we limit the number of guests for the destination wedding and throw a grand reception in India for others. This time, we can manage up to 1200 guests in a Turkish wedding destination. Isn't it an amazing deal to have all your people on your Big Day?
3. Mix of Tradition and Style
The core attraction of Turkish destination will be the traditional whirling dervishes show. The cuisine can also be a combination of Turkish and Indian. This will be an exceptional experience for both the couples and the guests. The Indian delicacies will go hand in hand with the mouth-watering Turkish tastes. Indian traditional entertainment can also be incorporated to not miss the real fun. The rituals can be in pure Indian style while the fun can be both Indian and Turkish.
4. Jewellery and Gown
Though you may always have dreamt of a Manish Malhotra or Sabyasachi Lehenga for your dream day, you can look into the amazing collection in Izmir, the land of gowns and jewellery. Since Indian wedding is not a one day deal, we can go for different choices for Sangeet and Mehendi. This will make your wedding an elite and special one. You can also plan your Honeymoon in Turkey's most romantic places.
5. Plush, but Economic
When a grand wedding abroad can cost you in billions, Turkey offers you the same for 1-5million. When it comes to wedding expenses, this is a good catch for Indian couples. When money is less and luxury is best, why look for other destinations?
In a world ruled by smartphones, it is not hard work that pays off, but smart work. This is no different in the case of relationships. We live in a virtual space which can be liked by someone, shared by other and reposted by another. We all have a life outside reality that is exclusively in social media. Whether it's Valentine's Day or Birthday, we celebrate it online. The gifts should be of online post-able standards and even at a midnight cake cutting in our bedroom, we wear new clothes. After all, it should all go online at 12!
But, though we see a life of celebrations around, the number of breakups and divorces are rising. The reasons can be as small as not wishing for the anniversary. This may sound silly to you but may be a big deal for another. To avoid such situations, here are some things that smart couples do to make their life happier and smarter.
1. Never fight online!
Do not let others know, whether you are having a bad fight or if he missed bringing your favourite pastry on your birthday. Let all your distress and arguments be offline. It is not a bad eye myth or an omen that makes your life miserable, but a third person interference. The man/ woman who needs to know the problem is beside you or in the other room. Sharing your issues online can only bring more likes, but if you do it with your partner on the face, it can bring a solution at least.
2. Spend Quality Time
Make sure you have a minimum of 30minutes to 1 hour of quality time with each other per day. If you are not getting it at home, make some smart changes in your routine. Walk together to the gym or cook your dinner together. If she is busy in the kitchen, you can sit near and have a conversation. If he is late from office and already had dinner, make a cup of coffee and give him company.
3. Go on Vacations
It doesn't matter even if it is for a day or two. Get out from your daily routine and take a small break. Spend time with your partner and family. If you cannot travel outside the city due to work, book a resort nearby and see the difference in the bond with your family. Once in a while, you can leave your kids with your family members and spend a day alone with your partner to cherish your romance.
4.'Me-Time' is a Must
Spending time with yourself is as important as spending time with your loved ones. Me-time is not only about spas and beauty treatments. Read that book you always wanted to or visit that family member of yours. Go out and watch a movie which you missed and shop for yourself as a retail therapy. Take a glass of wine and lie down on your couch and watch your favourite show. Finding and loving yourself will help you love others more.
5. No Technology Day
If likely, take a day off from technology. Put your phones on silent mode and switch off your wifi connection. Take photos of your moments, if essential but do not post it anywhere. Let these moments be saved in your heart and added to your memory timeline. If your work doesn't permit you to do so, make it 2-3 hours per month. Even the busiest person can do this if an extra effort is taken.
Let's make these simple habits a part of our life and make our life happier than before.
Bad luck Man! If you forget your partner's birthday or wedding/love anniversary, you may be forgiven in a day or week's time. But, if you miss that day when the whole world celebrates love, you are finished! Are you planning to wait for another year to make things up to her? That is a very bad idea.
Since you have already done your part of failing to buy her a gift or surprise in the morning, check out the best ways to compensate your big mistake. These actions can sweep her off her feet and fall for you, all over again on the Day of Love.
1. Surprise Visit
Give a surprise visit to her college/ office with a bouquet of flowers and chocolate at the lunch break or pick her up a little early and bring a smile on her face. This will give a feeling of affirmation to her because her friends/ colleagues will be witnessing your love. A little PDA (Public Display of Affection) can add the flavour to your day like a warm hug or a kiss on the forehead.
2. Cook for her
As booking a dinner date at her favourite restaurant with Valentine's Day party may be near to impossible, try your hands on cooking. Try to make her favourite dish and impress her. But, believe me! However bad a chef you are, a plate of maggi or pasta can make her feel special. You can spice it up with a romantic atmosphere with a glass of wine and candles. Make sure the aroma set is also matching up with the whole dinner set up.
3. Gift Voucher
Almost every bank has gift card facility which can come handy, at the last moment. The amount in the card can depend on your spending capacity and her expectation level. You can convince her that you want her to buy what she wants, instead of you buying her anything cheesy. This can sound more logical and practical to her, especially if she is a shopaholic. Do not forget to add a sweet love letter along with the card to make it look pre planned.
4. Night Drive
The night is still young; you can plan a random night drive with some romantic music to gear up. Beaches /lakes can never go wrong for a special night. You can make it a long /short one as you both may prefer. While on trip, she should never realise that you have missed it and make her feel that even missing to wish her in the morning, was a part of your surprise.
5. Netflix
Watch her most favourite movie/ show, even if it is the cheesiest thing in this world. If there is any daily soap/ web series which she look up to, watch it with her. Cuddle up and pamper her with cheat snacks and coffee. Though you may have been the worst in the morning, make her realise that you are the best and you love her to the moon and back.
Hey Girl, Congratulations on your wedding. With every passing day, are you feeling that you are screaming at everyone including your man unnecessarily? Do you think you are creating issues in relationships? Are you feeling sad/ angry without any reason? Do not worry. You are not alone. Every bride to enter this phase of Bridezilla one day or the other.
We are in a land where the wedding is considered the most luxurious and important event in one's life. Everything from the venue to guests has to be pre-planned and organized well ahead. Still, there can be numerous things that can go wrong. So, it is perfectly normal to be panic when your D-day approaches. After all, you have that dream of fairytale wedding where everything is just perfect. But, you can be a real pain for your family and friends when the bridezilla in you turns intolerable. Let's check out some cool ways to handle this.
1. De-stress
Relax! Take a deep breath. You can try yoga or simply meditate for 10 to 20 minutes daily. Sit with your eyes closed and listen to what your mind says. This not only makes your mind calm but also helps you focus on priorities. Spend some quality time with yourself. My time is not only about spas and beauty treatments. A good book or music can also bring you back on track. You can even book a premarital counselling along with your partner and discuss everything that bothers you, openly.
2. Share
You can entrust your burden with the bridesmaids and other family members. It is obvious that you need to choose everything for yourself on your special day. Still, you can ask your friends to get your favourite white lilies for decoration as far as your bestie can figure out how a lily looks like. You can also share your decision making hassle with your man. Let him decide the food menu when you choose the venue.
3. Let It Go
A single wrinkle on your wedding gown, a small zit on your face or that misplaced flower in the bouquet will not matter at all. Wedding is nothing about all these. By the end, you will be with the love of your life. If something is not turning as you planned it, go with the flow. Just realise that some things doesn't matter. You don't need to run behind every minute detail. An unselected song played at the Sangeet will not affect your wedding by any means.
4. Plan Ahead
Procrastination can be your worst enemy at the time of wedding. Plan everything before hand and have alternatives ready for everything possible. Believe Me! You will look gorgeous and every eye will be on you.
5. Eat and Drink Healthy
Eat a lot of vegetables and fruits. Drink a lot of water to make your body relax. Make sure your weight loss/ weight gain plan for wedding is not making you weak. Exercise daily for at least 20minutes. Avoid fatty and junk foods. Reduce oil intake and eat clean. Control your cravings as stress may make you eat more. Sweets can be kept aside exclusively for guests. You may not need to taste everything.
Any adult has the right to marry anyone. Nobody including parents can question their choice of spouse. The Supreme Court of India bench led by Chief Justice of India (CJI) Dipak Misra has sternly warned Khap Panchayats that they cannot assume to be the conscience keepers of the society. Legality of marriages cannot be based on ‘Gotra’ tradition. It has to go by law to determine legality of a marriage.
Any two persons of marriageable age can marry according to their wish. The Apex Court bench has opined that Khaps or Panchayats cannot assume the role of guardians of society. If a marriage is not permissible under law, there are courts to annual it. Khaps have no business to determine the legality of marriage.
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